Still friends with your Ex's?

It definitely isn't easy.
I struggle with it sometimes. Especially seeing him with other girls. I still love him and want to be with him. But if he'll be happier with someone else, so be it. That's all I really want...him to be happy.

 

i cant say i want him to be happy, i just want him to be happy with me. its totally selfish but i havent reached that part in our "relationship" to let him go. evenually i would like him to be happy, but i still have a lot coming to the realization it wont work between us.

oh fuck it. i want him to be happy, with other girls, but i still would like keep our best friendship

 

nope. I am still friendly with a former dick. Havent talked to him in about a year though. The rest are not worth my time.

 

im very surprised about how many people remain friends. Of course, you gotta take the situation (kids, family, etc). But if its just no real connection...then NO!!!!!!! They would try to make jealous or some bull like that and i'd rather not know what they are up to now a days

 

Not since before divorce, kinda get testy even thinking about it. lost every thing- even my balls- serious had the big V done when I was 20 for her. people ask if I have kids- not, I just tell then I am a guilding (a horse that has been neutered) just to be a smart ass and make them think about it for a minute. OUCH.. wouldn't want to go thru that again.

 

A gelding has had his testicles removed.

 

To some of them... I got 3 boyfriends before and 2 of them are not my friends... I don't know why.. just that I do not want to be friend to them anymore... With my 1 ex... we say hi whenever we see each other.. just that.. nothing else... then if I found someone else in the future then much better if not to talk to my ex... because I don't want either that my boyfriend will still have a communication with their ex's too... just be fair

 

I live in a super small town so the ex and I see each other more often than I would like... the fact that he fucked me over so hard so many times makes it's a little weird for me still, but we are civil. I'm very good friends with his sister so occasionally we smoke a doob together and hang out. If this makes any sense at all, I could trust him with my life (he will always have my back), but I could never trust him with my heart.

 

Hmmm. Yeah, that's a weird one for me to grasp my brain around. But if you say so....

 

i try my best to maintain friendship with all my ex's, although most of them i never see anymore, but if i did i wouldn't mind chillin and being cool with them.

 

i think its wierd when guys still want to b friedns with there exs

 

Not friends with any of them. Some were my choice, some were theirs.

 

im friends with all of them i dont think its a problem they know alot about you and the once where attracted to yu so y wouldnt you saty frans unless there assholes

 

HAHA im a guy and I NEVER want to stay friends much less keep in touch. My last gf even texted me, "you dont even want to stay friends?" Gladly, i said, "kiss my ass, leave me alone!!!!" HA

 

all depends on what you guys broke up for...

im friends with my ex..we broke up 2 years ago..3...and we still laugh together..he changed dramatically over the years so its hard to get the old him back..but I see it more every day..he left me after i had an abortion done. left me cold but i became a stronger person and when he came back to apologize, admitted those were the worst months of his life leaving me...as of right now, surprise we're going through the same ordeal but hes taking my hand and walking with me this time.

We have a strong physical attraction together, as we did 3 years back when going out and its strong today. He treats me like a queen...showers me with things because he realizes that at times he took me for granted and when he started meeting other girls...he really started to miss me, knowing I wasnt like the girls he was seeing. I dont know where this is going, Im just happy Im spending time with a guy that knows me and had a past with me and Im comfortable sleeping with him still after 3 years

Its extremely difficult to get fixed people to change..but with time and effort, they can change and realize that what they did was wrong

and who knows. It might bring it back together

 

I'm still friends with my ex. We were married for 8 years (no kids). My girlfriend told me to leave him because our relationship was more like brother and sister (the sex was lousy). I met someone at work who I was attracted to and we started to have an affair. I justified it because my man told me he had an affair with one of our friends when I was away on a family emergency. I fell in love with this guy from work and I ended up leaving my husband. We got a divorce and he found someone new and now has a family.

We saw each other at a reunion and hooked up for the night. I was the best sex I ever had. He made love to me with no inhibitions and it was like I never knew this guy before. I was somewhat perplexed by this, but I knew that we had cut our ties and that we had to go on with our lives. It's funny how things turn out sometimes. I think about that night from time to time and wonder if I shouldn't have tried to work it out. Oh well, you live and you learn.

 

nice playa!!


high five!

 

I will never understand how some people can be "OMG BEST FRENZ" when they breakup. It irks me that my boyfriend's ex still lurks around and started blowing him up via telephone, etc when I was obviously a part of his life (thanks, Facebook. /sigh). She cheated on him SO MANY times and ruined his life for the better part of a year. Can't she leave well enough alone and just MOVE ON? shit.

 

I am still friends with most of my ex-s. They are good people and I like their company.

 

Ex... Piss off... They are Ex's for a reason.. Plain and simple.