Standing positions and height differences

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by drumminmama, May 3, 2014.

  1. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Having some mechanical engineering issues and want some fresh perspective.

    One partner and I like standing/supported positions, but I'm just a bit too short.
    I fall off heels. Every damn time.
    He's taken me to urgent care. Seriously.

    So, other than swimming pool and hot tub, what are some stable options to be a platform?

    The spacing is about five inches off. If I really stretch onto a tippy tip of the toe position, we get started, but I can't keep that up, and giggling ensues.
    While we are happy to laugh together, we'd like to solve this puzzle, too.
     
  2. Vanilla Gorilla

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    The International Space station, then you wouldnt have to worry about gravity
     
  3. drumminmama

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    Now that would be fun.
    Alas, impractical.

    Thanks for more giggles.
     
  4. Just_a_woman

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    You could just stand on top of a step. I mean those for doing aerobics type exercises.
     
  5. Karen_J

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    Does he know how to build a sturdy wooden box? With enough sexual motivation, I'll bet he could figure it out. ;)
     
  6. Sallysmart

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    So I take it you mean for sex while standing, he must be taller then you. If you are tiny and he is taller and strong he could just pick you up if not I think a step as well.
    I tend to pick my guys just a couple inches taller then me for some reason so there isn't a problem but I always wanted a guy much taller then me, just never happens. I am 5.5 and they are almost always 5.7 or 5.8.
     
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    It's defiantly hard, my girl is a lot shorter than me and standing is almost impossible, her sitting on a bench works, good in the kitchen , more fun than cooking!;)
     
  8. drumminmama

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    I'd pictured a low bench, long step.
    Yes, I'm about eight inches shorter, maybe more. There's the issue of his other dimensions.

    He does pick me up, and it's okay for a short time, but I have a pain syndrome we like to leave lying quietly. I can grasp,him well, with less pain. But sometimes we just get reminded we aren't 40 anymore. ;-)
     
  9. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Fnarrr Fnarrrr ;)
     
  10. Meliai

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    Right now I am staring at my low lying coffee table and I picture it working quite well for this kind of height difference.

    My partner and I just gave up on the standing position. He will put me against a wall sometimes with my legs wrapped around him but we can't go longer than a few minutes in this position
     
  11. Annwyn'Bri

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    Standing on the bed? That way if you fall, it's a soft landing.
     
  12. Sallysmart

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    Bed might be too high, they are usually 21 to 23 inches high, ours is higher.
    Op needs about 8 inches.
     
  13. usedtobehoney

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    Put the bed/mattress on the floor or on one of those futon "stands". Or get a futon/couch thing w/ the stand.
     
  14. jimandjan

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    Sex swing hanging from ceiling, works great.
     
  15. drumminmama

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    Sex swing at hotel did, indeed work. But who is taking one hiking? :)
     
  16. AngelAus

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    Oh me and my guy only know this problem too well.
    For us we bought a step platform from the gym. Well actually I wanted it for inside exercise but it ended up really good. There's a platform about 1.5m long and then in the end you put these cubes which raise it or lower it in increments of a few inches at a time.
    Now I can stand up and be taken from behind against the wall and with me being higher during I can gauge the depth he's getting. Sometimes I will push my hands against him to get him to slow down and I'll start riding it while standing up. Then we can lower it so he's more straight to hit other spots. It's a simple thing that brings great joy.
     
  17. drumminmama

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    Well, I hate a unitasker.. ;)
    An aerobic step might be in my future.
     
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    never dated a women taller than I.
     
  19. drumminmama

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    I'm the shorty.
    I don't think I have ever dated anyone shorter. Same height, yes.
     
  20. Sallysmart

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    I dated a guy for one evening off the dating site before I met BF, the guy said he was taller then me in his profile. Turned out he was shorter by at least an inch, felt strange to me. He was nice and wanted a second date but I couldn't, for one he was shorter, for two he lied about himself so I figured I owed him nothing for that. Not even a nice new pair of one inch heeled boots.
    Usually my guys are about two inches taller, never dated one same height, just how it turns out for some reason.
     

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