So I've been trying to figure out how to squirt for a while, and read up about it, but haven't had a lot of luck. I orgasm, and usually very intensely, every time we do something and when I masterbate and I've felt the build up and release, but then nothing. I did squirt one time, several years ago, in masterbation, but i hadn't been able to do it again since. So last weekend I was using the massage wand on my clit only, no penetration, and I didn't even have an orgasm yet, I was actually mostly just snap chatting a couple pics to my husband at work and suddenly I start gushing uncontrollably! WTH? Anyone have this experience or know what I'm doing "wrong"?
You need to have an orgasm first, fingering, or clitoris whatever, then you need to be fingered heaps hard and fast and you need to push. Doesn't work for me because some girls just don't ever do it, but that method will work. Also squirting is not an orgasm its more of a release of the liquid combined with some urine, the release of it is what will feel good.
You're hitting the wrong spot you need to use your middle finger and put it inside your Pussy pointed towards your belly and feel an almond size spot"G Spot" and use a come hither motion , nice and slow at first then you can do a harder faster motion and feel yourself working up to a point of no return and let it all out. It may feel like you're peeing but it's not urine and it feels amazing and it will drive your man insane !
The "squirt" or "dribble" or "leak" or whatever you call it is associated with G-spot and orgasm. They seem to be linked, but if it happens, just keep doing what works!
I just watched this last week: http://xhamster.com/movies/2458884/female_group_masturbation_and_squirting.html I think I'm allowed to post this here as it is informative and pertinent to the discussion. C/S, Rev J
I wish I could help. All I know and I don't know but I got me honey off every time when she was on top. So try that. I think I banged her gong that way on her g spot. I'll never forget she got embarrassed cause she thought she peed on me. It was her first and it wetted me but it was nice!
Ask Santa for the guide to Squirting by U.B Cumming. It is an excellent read as far as erotica is concerned.
Look up Raine Leigh's books on the subject, there is even a contribution from yours truly in her latest! http://www.authorrleigh.com/
To me squirting is annoying sometimes because I hate making a mess. I can never fully finish unless I got tons of towels. I get the biggest urge to squirt when I slowly go in and out with the toy. As long as you're fully relaxed, you should be able to squirt. Also make sure you're well hydrated.
To me a mess is an essential part of lovemaking! Bodily fluids from both of us are a sure sign that satisfaction has been achieved!
