i am 24. Me and my boyfriend had sex for three times uptil now in the last month. he was the 1st person i ever had sex with. the last time we did it was right after my periods. the sex was quiet rough this time. he did it once with condom and once without condom(without condom he did not get discharged inside me) but still i took the birth control pill to keep my safe side. now its been around 4 days.. im having swelling around my clitoris.. and when i woke up yesterday i felt i was wet but when i went to wash it i noticed it was sticky fluid but it was not white, it was pinkinsh, i think it was a mixture of fluid + blood.. then again when i woke up today i had the same thing infact today i saw clear blood and im sure its not the blood of periods, it seems like some internal bleeding. im really worried. i sometimes get a pain in my lower tummy too. now im getting spots randomly..4 spots in 2 days, blood red color, about one ounce or less blood...once it was clots too. i have searched alot on the internet its wriiten eerywhere that spotting and bleeding is normal after ECp...i dont know if its cause of ecp or latex as we used condom too or maybe its yeast infection, but i'd like to mention a few things that are in my mind and i have found in the answers over the internet too: 1. spotting and unusual bleeding is natural when you use ECP.. 2. he was having a bad stomach that day, maybe he was not clean, and we did it twice that day once with condom and once without condom (without condom he did not get discharged inside me). maybe he was not properly clean and cause of his bad stomach the infection got into me when we did it without condom.. 3. i read somewhere it could be possible that my bf is sleeping with multiple partners ( i doubt him cause he is doing fishy things at times and i really have serious doubts on him but i have no proves) but maybe he slept with some other girl who was already infected and this way it traveled into me. its kinda next to impossible for me.. please if someone can guide me here and i can buy the medicines myself from the drug store? it will be great for me
I'm a 23 year old male and I am in medical school. Birth control is horrible for women. It causes blood clots and thinning of your blood. I would never agree to my girl friend taking Birth Control (although it feels much better). It can be really dangerous. I love her and would never do that to her. Blood clots can be fatal. Women are really prone to them especially behind the knees because they tend to cross their legs over when they sit. Just stick to a condom. If by accident (you know, spur of the moment) you have sex with no protection get your hand on a Plan B (we all know you can get into it and not care at the moment ). Tell you boyfriend to do research on Birth Control and how dangerous it can be for you. Just use condoms. They all different kinds, I'm sure you know. Even the ultra thin ones.