Spontaneous kissing? Bad idea?

Ya think the OP might want to ask for an ass-grab as well?

 

lol do not ask her.... that takes all the spontanatiy out of it. definatyl do not ask. girls dont like getting asked permission for that sort of thing.

u have to test the waters yourself, go for an ass grab when u start makin out with her... i bet she will be into it.

 

Dude, I KNOW she'll be into it. She is a very touch-happy person. Shockingly so. It isn't often that a girl hugs someone good buy for 40 seconds...

But hey, all in due time, but I think kissing her would speed things up a bit.

 

Some girls like to be asked, some girl don't. Some girls like a good ass-grab, some others don't.

I don't think the OP should give a fuck what girls like or don't like. I think he should focus on what feels natural and appropriate, FOR HIM. And if she doesn't like it, well what does that tell you?

He'd be better suited with someone else.

 

Aiight, so you have your mind made up. I think you're on the right track...

So when is the big day? Don't tease me.

 

if they cant take an ass grab after a date or two than forget them.

 

That's my attitude as well, but I don't think the OP is of the same ilk as scoundrels the likes of us.

 

yeah thats true. they are 16 n all. but 14 to 16 year old girls loose their vaginity about that age soooo.

 

Do it!

After all the worst she can do is slap you or say no.

And the fact that she does hug you (an intimate, long hug) says that she likes having at least some contact with you. So I would say you should risk it.

Hope it's everything you want it to be and more!

L_S

 

Either that, or she's a tease who does that to a lot of unsuspecting guys. Let's hope the first.

 

Keep us updated. Tell us how this turns out!

 

Yeah, I used to know a girl like that. Sucks when I took a chance to tell her I liked her and she said she didn't feel much towards me. Well, I got over it

L_S

 

man u guys are makin way to big of a deal over this shit. just kiss her, if nothing than move on to the next girl. dont waist time thats all i can say. its either their or it isnt.

 

What is the tell-tale sign of a cocktease?

 

It can be good or bad, just depends on if the girl likes you enough not to slap the holy fuck out of you afterwards. It also depends on if the situation calls for that type of action. If it does, then all means go for it. If not, don't. I've always tried to follow that "trust my gut" type of mode of action, and it works pretty well. With anything, if you have second thoughts about doing it when it comes down to it and those second thoughts are really telling you not to, it's usually best to just wait. Don't rush anything. If all else fails, at least let her know how interested you are, and maybe she'll make the first move. You never know.

Play it safe and don't mess up your chances.

 

go in guns blazing. fuck waiting around for ever. u will miss every other girl out there, and still not end up hooking up with the one in the beggining.

if u want a girl u have to go after her quickly and smoothly, or some other bastard will.

 

Here is what I was thinking, even if she slaps me in the face, she will tell her friends about it, and they are bound to tell her that she should give me a chance!! Or in the very least, one of them might get turned on and it might turn out quite nicely. You never know... Something good normally happens when you have the guts to just go for it, even though it might be a roller coaster ride getting there!

 

last saturday i was really drunk and hooked up with 3 or 4 woman. either just kissed them or took them too the dance floor and kissed them grabbed their ass n tits n stuff.
there was one girl i never even chatted to much and for some reason i kissed her, and she pulled away... and that was that. that is the only girl thats ever pulled away from me kissing them. and it was because i didnt talk to her first. i was just too drunk wanted to kiss everyone.

 

So you haven't kissed her yet? What are you waiting for? Get in there...