Spit or Swallow...and why?

I swallow every drop and I do agree that the orgasm of my partners seem more intense when they know their sperm is desired! Spitting out I feel gives the subconscious feeling of rejection!

 

I always swallow. I like the way it makes me feel and for me it completes the experience of sucking a guy off. It turns me on so much that I usually shoot my own load right after I finish swallowing his.

 

I swallow every last drop cum. Cum doesn’t taste that bad especially if your partner is taking care of them selfs.

 

When I was younger, I never got swallowed. Wife hated cum in her mouth. Period. Now that I see others, I rarely have it spit out. Sometimes she'll choke so it kind of goes everywhere but these women are older too and have been sucking cock for years and are all used to swallowing. I do have one friend who used to swallow cum but she is convinced that men who have had a COVID vaccine will pass some kind of drug from their cum to her body so they get spit even if they used to get swallowed. I have a feeling she's not as concerned as she used to be since I got swallowed recently after having been spit out a few times before. No matter to me. It's all good.

 

I could be one of a few exceptions, it doesn’t bother me if someone spits since she finishes it before spitting. All I know, some just don’t feel comfortable doing it.
What bothers me more is someone who stops when the ejaculation starts. That is if she intended to do it to completion.

 

I don’t know…I think the act of swallowing is so erotic and I try to look the guys in the eye when I do it. Just by their reactions, that one final thrust and grunt, I think it’s really appreciated!

 

For sure, @Jenna1995
While I am very happy with a complete bj even if she spits at the very end, watching her swallow gives that extra wow factor.
Especially if she returns to it right after while I’m still hard and able to enjoy the post orgasm

 

I wouldn't ever say that spitting it out is a sign of rejection, but it is a sign that homey's shit... just tastes too nasty or its consistency is just too off-putting to keep it in your mouth, let alone swallow it. If I suck 10 guys, eight out of ten times, I'm swallowing; one time, bleh, yuck, his shit is too nasty/off-putting and one time, um, I just want to see him spurting cum all over the place. Maybe it's just me but my idea of a sign of rejection is not sucking his dick at all and I mean telling him that, nope, I'm not doing that to you because (insert the reasons why I won't suck his cock).

 

Probably not. One fwb learned and enjoyed making me cum in her mouth and said she found the taste sweet. I was the first she ever gave oral to and loved every part of giving a blowjob. Her issue was that she was afraid swallowing would cause her to throw up.
I found out about her concern over a year after I had moved, we kept in touch.
I reassured that it never bothered me, and educated her that if she was not put off with the taste and the texture then she would have been fine swallowing. Then she said if she had known and if I had told her, she would have swallowed willingly and eagerly, since she loved making me finish in her mouth

 

For me, if I put the dick in my mouth, I will swallow unless the guys doesn’t want me to. I’ve eaten Surströmming (Google it) out of the can before on a dare and I managed to swallow it, so can’t imagine any cum I couldn’t handle

 

I know about Surstromming! OMG! I give you major props for that 'cause I wouldn't do it on a dare or if there was a gun to my head! So, yeah, if the cum tastes nasty, I'm spitting it out.

 

I always swallow, why waste it. It aleays taste good.

 

Agree!!

 

My wife was the blow job queen in college and swallowed all the time. Sometimes several guys a day. The only time she won’t is after dinner but she will have me shoot on her face. My fwb always swallows also and my fb. Sometimes when I’m ready to unload they will want me to put my cock into them and shoot into their pussy of which I am more than pleased. My fwb always believed that a blow job was more intimate than fucking so she is very selective who she sucks. Kinda like an honor so I’m pleased I’m selected. She sucks like a porn star and makes those gulping sounds when she swallows. In an of itself it is an amazing turn on!

 

I have a hard time understanding women who don’t swallow. Not the ones with gag reflex issues but the ones who won’t on principle or for non physical issues. Mind you, once identified, I don’t tend to interact with them much to explore their perspectives.

 

I agree. I can’t understand it. I guess similar maybe to guys who won’t eat pussy

 

Yep.

 

I'm a swallower. have been from the first blowjob. I love everything about cum. The taste, the texture, the slipperiness. I especially like what I have to do to get it.

 

Wish my wife felt the same way.

 

Again, women are funny about it. Many never acquired the taste and many refused to even try and thanks to the horror stories girls can share about sucking a guy's dick and getting a mouthful of spunk. Many have, classically, been lied to by guys who have said, "I won't cum in your mouth!" and... that's what they do either deliberately or accidentally but the effect is still the same: She's traumatized and if you can convince her to suck a dick, you can bet your ass she's not swallowing any cum unless the guy is some kind of extra special someone or, by chance, she's gotten past being traumatized by it.

A lot of women won't take it in their mouth because... they want it in their pussy and they know that when some of us cum, it's game over for us for x-amount of time so a woman knows that if she sucks us off, she's not going to get fucked any time soon so there will be no sucking a guy off and that has nothing to do with spitting or swallowing. If you don't know why your woman - or women in general - aren't of a mind to be in a position to spit or swallow, ask her why she won't. She just might answer you if you ask nicely.

But, you see, it's because so many women aren't of a mind to let a guy cum in their mouth that makes male cocksuckers so damned popular because it's well known that we'll suck your dick and swallow your cum and while gay men used to "own this," um, they don't anymore, do they and maybe they never did. So, if your woman won't, er, um, find a guy who will. And, finally, once a woman has reason to give up on sex, you can forget all that good stuff she used to do before her desire to have sex got on the bus and left town...