Spit or Swallow...and why?

or maybe she doesn't like to give head..

 

Oh, my.

 

Deja Vu, you seem so familiar,
like life-mates meeting for whatever.

The taste depends on the clarity of awareness,
the more yoga, t'ai chi and meditation...
the more like amrita, we are. *Shhhhh...., but why not here*

 

He just hasn't had good head. And I suppose he wouldn't be into it if it made you throw up. That would sure be sexy.

As for you not liking getting oral. I don't really get it. I had a girlfriend that didn't like getting head because her clit was too sensitive. But then, I was young and didn't really know how to work it.

As for my wife, I can't imagine how she could imagine going through life without it since it's the sure way for her to cum. I wouldn't withhold that from her. But if you cum from intercourse then you're lucky since most women don't.

So I guess it all balances out.

But your rigorous comments about how disgusting oral sex is are a bit self righteous as if just because you find it disgusting everyone should. And that's not the case.

I find it supremely satisfying. But then, I'm a chef and like exotic foods as well.

 

Well, I think we've already established That. Which is her prefrence.
The question I posed was Spit or Swallow?...I expected responses from women {or men} that actually give blow jobs.
I'm new here, maybe I expect too much. lol

 

Amen, Chodpa. Thanx to everyone for your many responses. It's been for the most part, a pleasure hearing from you all.

Now if you'll excuse me I'm going to give my husband one of those
30 minute blow jobs he loves so much !!

Peace and love to all, Scarlett
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I aplogize if I sounded self absorbed or rude about it, I never ment to sound that way...I was just adding my opinion to the thread.


And about the me not liking oral thing...I just don't get off on it ...But I have never had an orgasam during intercourse either.The only time I have had an orgasam is when Im by myself.

Anyways, Im sorry if I offended anyone with my opinions on blow-jobs.

 

Thankyou my friend, I never ment to make it a big deal... Its pretty simple...I just don't like to give head...the same way I don't like eggplant parmasan.

 

You're bloody joking, right? Positive thinking will help some things, but come on now!

Bright Blessings!
Aphrodite Pretty

 

Really babe? Does it put you off sex? Thats so sad for you. It makes me want to cry because so many women cant enjoy sex.

 

Ya, I have never really enjoyed it... My husband is the same way. Well, Ive been able to maKe him cum with a blowjob but I have never been able to with oral (or intercourse)

 

Oh Retro~ I love your pic on the earthmamas thread! You are beautiful!

 

Have you lost hope though?

I dont know, I guess if youre not really into it anyway it doesnt matter so much. But since you can make yourself cum, maybe it will be possible someday for you to get pleasure from sex.

Aww thanks for the complement btw, thats sweet of you

 

LOL Have I lost hope? Well, probably. Sex is over-rated I think.

 

I agree, but it should at least be nice. I get really depressed when I cant cum, it makes me so upset and angry and frustrated... Maybe I'm over sensitive... It just makes me feel real. I guess thats why I find it sad when other women are suffereing in silence...

 

maybe you haven't done it with the right person yet. i know that's cliche, but who knows. we know you can come so we just need someone else to press the right button. perhaps if you live closer, heron would be a good choice, that's is if you wanted to . his love for women and making them happy just make him a great candidate. even when i dont' come i'm quite happy and satisfied. there's something about him that just make you feel wonderful and sexy and great. you're the only person in his world when you're with him. and he always do it for you and not himself. he worships the femine devine, so making love let him express it.
i'm not trying to pimp him out but wanted to let you know that there are men out there that will do anything to make you happy and do their best to give you your pleasure, with love and patience.
and even if you dont' come right off, you'll have fun getting there.

about spitting or swallowing, most time i would swallow because it makes my husband happy to see me swallow and can't get enough of it. i haven't always been this way, but you can say i evolved and learned to love it because it gives my husband so much happiness to seee me enjoy it and for me to see him enjoy it. a woman have so much power, and i do enjoy using it. it gives me a sense of satisfaction when i can give him so much pleasure.

 

Right on! My current husband is like that..and I thank the gods I found him, ..Just when I had thought that men like him didn't exist,
He found me and helped me believe in love again.
** A hard man is good to find** lol

For those of you who are not satisfying or getting satisfied,
It probably means you just haven't found the right partner yet.
If the only purpose for sex was pro-creation...God wouldn't have
concentrated so many nerve endings in our sexual organs.

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i totally agree a good man is hard to find and my husband is beyond good (and not only in bed ). that's why i'm so willing to share. the only problem is you have to catch my husband's heart first

 

I've never had an orgasm with a girl either. It doesn't really bother me. Sex is the fun part, cumming is just the ending. I never found sex THAT STIMULATING