"Spending time"

All hail Face's family! They make even a bunch of hysterical, superstitious, gabby, overspending, reactionary, gluttons sound interesting!

Edit: Reason why I hate women: women hate me.

 

Yeah, why choose conversation time to be precisely the time when you're putting things in your mouth is beyond me. I think in the end, it has to be a way to mediate intimacy.

Which goes back to the small-talk thing...Putting your full attention into conversation makes you feel closer to people than you can handle? Is that what boring means?

 

oh my god....

dude do you ever just smile?

 

it's not a literal talk with your mouth full thing.. well not for me. the experience is just more enjoyable over a meal. i love food.

i wish i could feel close to someone from a conversation. everyone seems so fake and dull these days, it's like no one really opens up anymore. either that or they just are actually boring people. who knows. people can't handle "real" anymore. and i can't stand fake!

 

I play cards, listen to music, drink and bullshit with friends. I consider that quality time. It's hard spending time with most women because of what they talk about. I don't have quite the attention span for serious relationship talk. But that's all they talk about. It's good to have a couple completely disintersted men around to keep it funny.

 

It's like that infinity symbol. During smokes breaks, the more the girls talk, the faster I smoke. I feel bad that I'm not more into the conversation sometimes. God knows people need to talk. But I have to get away.

 

Everyday, do you?

 

Ugh. No, food to me is a private biological function.

 

What the hell are you doing with your food?

 

Totally Depends On The Shape Of The Food........



Cheers Glen.

 

hope you're not eating it after. That's just unsanitary.

 

"Talk time" is cool if ya got something to talk about but, it's all relative. Depends on who you're with.

 

That was such a cliché answer. No heart man, no heart.

 

I'm with Cherea... I hate talking while eating.

 

I think the way you said people need to consume food together to enjoy a social situation is very similar to your need to engage in an actively with someone to enjoy their company. haven't you ever just sat and chatted--no food or activity involved?

I'm one of those faggots who always "wants to talk" .. and could talk and talk and ask questions all night.. then wake up and still have something to say.

 

My GIRL. Finally! :santa1:

 

I'm not much of a talker. I'm somewhere in between, I'd say. Not gabby, but I can talk when something needs to be said.

My last girlfriend was great because she wasn't gabby. I was mesmerized because all my life I've been looking for a girlfriend who wasn't gabby. But she was horrible, because when the time came that we needed to talk, she couldn't do that either. She would clam up, most the time.

Still, I miss her.

Edit: The type of conversation I will participate the most in: BULLSHIT AND JOKES!

 

it's a double edged sword. Dave loved the fact that I don't bitch or cry but I have communication problems. I clam up too. Except here. It's like talking to the voices in my head without pesky medications.

 

I'm insanely moody, and my moods can last anything from a few minutes to a few weeks. I can be annoyingly yappy, playful and immature / argumentative / broody and silent / content and silent / anxious / wise as a buddhist monk / wants to have sex 6 times a day / can't be bothered having sex at all / athiest / agnostic / idealist / nihilist / logician / anti-logician / RPG / FPS / RPG / FPS / grammar nazi / lol at, grammar,, and so on

I need a flexible woman.

 

Talking is an issue with me. I never ever ever like to tell people what my feelings are. I definitely bottle it all up and it drives my boyfriend crazy because he loves to talk about everything. He is definitely the gabby one in the relationship.

But I am totally insane so I am lucky to have him