Hi everyone. I am into being spanked by my wife. When we first started my wife was very vanilla, said she didn’t want to hurt me. Actually first ever spanking was us having sex with me on top, she playfully smacked my butt several times while we enjoyed our sex. Some time later that night I mentioned that I kinda enjoyed my light spanking. So the next time we had activity in bed I encouraged her to spank me again. The first time was 8-10 smacks, this time it was more like 25-30 smacks. She then says you liked that didn’t you? Of course I said YES and for the next couple of months that became a regular part of our activities. Finally I got the courage to talk with her about regular weekly spankings. It didn’t go well at first remember she is very much vanilla at this point. After reading numerous articles about spanking on the internet, I printed a few of them out and ask her to read them with an open mind which she did. I explained to her that I had this “need” and she was the only one who could fill this “need”. I would never go outside our marriage she means too much to me. So after more conversations I purchased two paddles via the mail. One leather and one wooden. At first the only way she would spank me was with role playing. She was the teacher I was the student and it was a spelling test. Every word I misspelled I got one sway for each letter of the word with the wooden paddle. Well as time went on she kept coming up with big long words to spell which I had no chance of getting right. The first couple of spelling test I got spanked in my undies. I wear men’s silk panties. Finally the underwear came off and I got my spankings on my bare ass. After several months of role playing she started to become less vanilla. I have been getting my spankings for almost a year now and so she is changing. I would say she is only 60% vanilla now. My spankings are ever hard enough or long enough but I appreciate what I get now. I am a very lucky man to have her as my spanker.
My wife just finished giving me my much needed spanking. It’s been 21 days since my last spanking. She said I really didn’t deserve a spanking but she knows I like a good hard spanking. It was definitely a good on I got 100 swats on each cheek with our 14” wooden paddle. I don’t think she spanked me as hard as last time but it was very good.
My gf and I have been together almost 5 years. I am 34 and she is 29. Two years ago she purchased a book about sexual positions and experiences. Chapter 3 had a section on spanking and we tried it. At first we would switch between spankee and spanker. The first few months were role playing Auntie/Uncle and Niece/Nephew scenarios with bare bottom hand spanking of about 10 or 12 smacks on each cheek followed by sex. Gradually my gf has taken control of the situation to the point she is the spanker always and the spankings include hand and hairbrush. Preceded by a lecture with corner time (now naked) after the hand spanking and then again after the hairbrush. The after sex is now much later but still great. I get a weekly maintenance spanking every Sunday evening and it seems whenever she feels I have misbehaved. Last month she had her younger sister visit and she witnessed and participated in my maintenance spanking Sunday and then gave me another spanking the next day. Her parents are coming next week and I fear she is going to involve them, if they are not involved already. Her mother is a large, but not obese, woman and rules her roost. I still enjoy the spankings but I am afraid of being totally dominated by the females in my life. Although there are a couple of my wifes friends that I would not mind visiting their laps. Any advice?
I would say that you have entered an interesting time in your life. I am thinking that your girlfriend was always into spanking, but maybe didn't act on it. The fact that her sister is part of it is very interesting.
@tanny34 your new adventure sounds quite interesting to me... Enjoy. But, be sure to discuss with your gf that you do have a right to set boundaries and limits, and have a safe word. Don't be shy about that part - mutual respect and trust is important. Did the spanking with the sister involve sex with the sister? or how did that session end? Mother might be a different scenario - I'd want to be real sure what your girlfriend is thinking before the in-laws arrive
As stated by others you should have set of boundaries, however a topic I would bring up is role reversal. Meaning does she want to completely dominate you in everything, and take on the role as the head of the household and be responsible for all the decisions.
