Spanking in relationships?

Discussion in 'Spanking' started by kittygirl18, Sep 11, 2012.

  1. Alonso376

    Alonso376 Members

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    My girlfriend loves being smacked on her arse arse hard when im taking her from behind. I like having my balls squeezed to.
     
  2. Females_over_males

    Females_over_males Beware of Dionnah's Paddle!!

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    Spanking in relationships is great. So long as it’s the guy getting his butt spanked. I know a female who complained that her man is always smacking her butt. I am about to turn their whole relationship upside down. Soon, she will be smacking his butt. And then that will be the only way going forward. I’m about to empower her.
     
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  3. Captain Scarlet

    Captain Scarlet Lifetime Supporter

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    That's fine as long as its in your agreed boundaries. Its not unusual for one partner to like spanking and the other to agree to satisfy the other partners wishes. This doesn't mean its automatically reciprocated . An agreement needs to be in place first which goes back to my point about the agreed boundaries .
     
  4. Females_over_males

    Females_over_males Beware of Dionnah's Paddle!!

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    Oh yes. It's definitely within the boundaries. As a matter of fact, in this particular case, it's the guy who wants to be spanked. He had been smacking her on the butt to get her mad enough to where she would want (and eventually take) revenge. So, that's when she contacted me and said "Revenge is starting to sound more and more tempting" and that's when I said "it's go time". And the guy is anxiously (and nervously) awaiting her revenge. I've spoken to them both separately and I told him that once I empower her, there is no turning back. And he was as happy as could be when he heard this.
     
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  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Could respondents not kink shame other members?

    spanking has a physiological aspect. The loads of nerves running throughout the pelvic floor. Slaps on the ass transfer and create sensations tied to sexual pleasure.

    for future readers,
    The idea to find instructional videos is a good one. Points!
    Also, find palatable porn for the less than convinced partner.
    And speak your heart. Say why you want to explore this. And on a lark is a good enough reason to want.
    BUT, humans aren’t Fetish dispensers. If they say no, accept that.
     
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