My wife bruises very easily. Hit a filing cabinet or desk corner with some force at work and she will have a 2 to 3 inch bruise. For me and I think most other people it will hurt for a while and that is it. We have been erotically spanking for several months but something has come up and I want to go a little harder. Not what I think would be considered a disciplinary spanking but one where she knows she has been spanked. Good pink bottom with a little sting. I think a brush or paddle could bruise her. I don’t want to bruise her. Has anyone else here, had a spanking relationship with someone that bruises easily? How hard/long can you go before you caused a bruise? Are there techniques that allow you to go harder and not cause a bruise where one would be produced otherwise like location on the cheek, massaging, tempo, etc?
From what I've gathered elsewhere, bruises are part and parcel. Badges of honor, so to speak. Is she the one wanting a lack of marks?
Thanks, Things went well. No brusing. I am the one not wanting to mark her. At least not at this stage. Down the road, who knows??