Have you ever had to deal with arousal or erections while spanking a man? My husband has sometimes become aroused during the early stages of a spanking, and it can be frustrating to me. I have found that by eliminating the arousal, the spanking becomes much more painful and unpleasant for him.
Oh yes. I deal with that regularly with my clients. Some will be rock hard when the spanking begins and it will continue all the way through the session. Some will be aroused at first and then it fades after a little while. I have one client in particular who will be hard during the entire session, even though he is crying like a baby, making promises to change his behavior. I always laugh at them when they make these "promises". I say "oh, hush boy. You know you are only saying that because you are over my knee getting blistered. I'll decide when to ease up, not you". When they are over my knee and have erections, I let them know that if they make a mess, then the entire spanking starts all over again. I can feel them quiver with nervousness when I tell them that.
I have found a hand job to be very effective in dealing with his erection. Sometimes he would be "dry humping" me while I am spanking. If I flip him over, and jerk him off quickly, or have him take care of it, then when I resume the spanking there is a noticeable change in his reactions. He is limp, and twisting, writhing, and crying in pain.
Oh, I like that! I have one client in particular who gets hard from the very beginning of the session. Basically, he will walk in the door hard, even knowing that I am about to blister his butt something fierce. I think I will have him go on ahead and take of it prior to the session from now on. That sounds like the perfect remedy for him.
That's isn't really punishment for him. He has licked ip up plenty of times. Plus, he is bisexual, and has no problem swallowing.
Only time I spanked someone for punishment was a friend of mine asked me to dress up and walk in while they were having sex and spank her infront of her husband. He could not touch me but only watch as I made his wife my bitch lol
My wife got all the information from the same club. If we argue, I get a spanking, Sometimes they get bad. I have learned to take it in order to keep piece in out family. She uses her hand sometimes. Other times it's a paddle. She has taken my belt and whipped me with it until my ass was on fire. She get excited doing it.
She hits my cock, I jump, then it gets harder. Sometimes she hits my balls, which really hurts. I believe I could get off if she spanked my cock but not hard.
I love a slow sensual handjob/blowjob with random surprise slaps to my cock and or balls to calm me down. I especially like the slaps just as I orgasm