spanking as a turn on

I love it. My spouse isn't a spanker...however, our fairly open marriage allows me to play ... So far its only included a self spanking, guided by a man over the phone. I was dripping wet, with a red ass, and he guided me to a nice orgasm after.

 

I love to see the light red marks afterwards (or maybe even dark red marks )

Personally I really enjoy spanking a girl, especially if we're playing a fantasy like teacher/schoolgirl or a punishment fetish etc... I love getting rough and brutal with a girl

 

It's my BIGGEST turn on especially when my boyfriend does it to me and tells me how bad I've been Mmm

 

Having my bared bottom spanked over someone's knee until it is really burning and then being laid face down over the chair and being fucked hard doggy style is delicious.

 

I love spanking. I'm not in to hard on spanking where I can't feel my ass cheeks or sit down for a few weeks. But I do love my ass being slapped and grabbed while I'm fucking and grinding. I also love choking, biting, and scratching. :sunny:
The rougher the sex the more intense the orgasm is.

 

My girlfriend and I are both spankers, though I tend to Top in the relationship. Our spanking is primarily reserved for playtime, though Sophia has expressed an interest in DD.

 

In youth we played with this, actually we did not not need it then - too many other things turned us on. Now, aging, with less sexual activity this could be helpful. Unfortunately it is not that at my age and being married for a long time I could find a partner for such entertainment. The experience with paid (escort) service was a disappointment. This is not the same as with the person you are involved in.

 

I receive punishment spankings from my wife. It is somewhat erotic at first, but she continues it so it turns to a true punishment spanking without any sexual overtones.

 

My wife barely has any butt cheeks to spank. Not much of a butt at all - just a very shallow crease below her lower back & legs.

 

One of my best friends who is a girl spanked me for a joke. It's something we always do when we are climbing up any stairs. But this time I felt the impact of the smack turning me on....strange..I guess I should try it out

 

YUP! in fact not only do i "dig" the harshness of a GOOD LONG HARD and yes, PUNITIVE SPANKING, but it's hard to find guys who will spank me HARD enough! I don't want a "sadist" per se, i just want someone to WHuP me like my daddy did!

 

Lucky I wear nice tight thick blue 501's............

 

The only thing better than giving is receiving

 

yes i enjoy getting spanked while i ride a man hard. i want the spanking a bit hard that it kinda redden my ass not a half hearted slap

 

Definitely a yes.

 

noela i didnt think you were thattype of girl

 

I love getting spanked. He usually does it when we are going at it doggy style. He just lays a few good cracks down on my ass with his hand. It turns everything up a notch. It has to be my bare ass for it to be a turn on. My girlfriends all smack each others asses all the time and that does nothing for me but flesh on flesh sends me over the edge.

 

Yes it turns me on.
I have always been with men, (only a few) with soft hands. My new BF has hard hands. When we first met we shook hands and I thought, WOW, those gotta be no fun. Little did I know we were gonna hit it off and that I was gonna like those hard workin caloused hands he's got. Always hot, he knows how to use em and when to use em. Sometimes in foreplay (I wish lots more) and lots when I am on top, Rubbing my buns, pinching and squeezing with some nails running up and down my legs and ass, and the odd smack. All of that just makes me wild and I feel like I have suddenly become a sex crazed animal when he lays it on me good. He knows it too so he tries to make me tell him stuff he wants to hear right then like why did I tell him a white lie he picked up on today while on the phone with him or why was I in a bad mood earlier and if I refuse,,, smack! "Tell me!"
He seems to know my every thought, feelings and can even tell in my texting when I am not as happy as He thinks I should be and he brings it up while we are into the moment so he can eventually get it out of me, whats wrong. Yes, I am bad, I hold back feelings and he hates like hell not knowing whats up but he knows how to find out.
One time, Ok this more for the funny side of things. I was at his house, he was working on his car so I went and laid down on his couch with his dobes. Them big dogs get right on top of me and go to sleep. I fell asleep. He got the dogs up some time later to go out for a pee and then told me to get up. I didnt, I said "ok" then I drifted off again. He came back to the couch a bit later and said "get up or I'll smack you" I thought he was kidding. He wound up and laid the hardest smack I have ever felt on my ass, made me leap off the couch, made my eyeballs go cross eyed, then he walked away laughing. Ya know I felt that open handed stinger for days. I really didnt see that one coming from him. Then he complained later with a bit of a chuckle that his hand was hurting, well I guess it would be Jerk! He has a sick sense of humour, sending me into the middle of next week like that. ;0
He does have a big warm heart tho and he cares about me so much he says it several times a day, even while he is out workin his ass off all day he phones just to say "I miss you lots and I love you. He gets really worried if he calls and I dont answer because I have a business and things can go wrong. He does things I dont even ask him to do.