Soul mate?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Pressed_Rat, Jun 15, 2014.

  1. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    This is in relationship to rat and his would-be best friend for life :confused:



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  2. Piaf

    Piaf Senior Member

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    Famous last words!
     
  3. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    There happens to be another one in the making somewhere later this summer as well :cheers2: (one of a friend's). It is kind of a drag more of them are getting married though... but at least they all take solid revenge on eachother when secretly organizing eachothers bachelor parties :biggrin:
     
  4. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Ok, that explains it then ;)
     
  5. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    The problem is she's too tall and too big boned. What are they going to do?? Saw her in half horizontally and vertically? :confused:
     
  6. Heat

    Heat Smile, it's contagious! :) Lifetime Supporter

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    If there is no chemistry then it probably will not work out. I would though expect that the friendship will also eventually go by the way side as sooner or later she will move on as it will be what is best for her to do.

    On your part make sure that this is not going to be the one you regret in a few years. Sometimes we can over think to the point of missing the boat. :)
     
  7. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Well at least I solved 1/3 of the problem; the rest I leave to you and the other posters :2thumbsup:


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  8. *Yogi*

    *Yogi* Resident Racist

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    You could always put vac seal bags on her and 'suck it in'. The height part she can slouch or he can wear platforms. Saves a lot of time and money while they develop the shrinking pill.
     
  9. hotwater

    hotwater Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    Well that’s a practical solution :rolleyes:

    Rat would be better served going all Dr. Frankenstein and shit and build his own girlfriend from scratch :eek:



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  10. *MAMA*

    *MAMA* Perfectly Imperfect

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    :rofl:
     
  11. egger

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    OK, so she's 5 foot 6. Big deal. She can reach that jar of protein powder at Wegman's for you without you having to ask the store worker for help. [​IMG] Take a look at Dennis Kucinich and his wife.

    On the flip side, she may be thinking, "I really want a guy who's tall and handsome. I just don't know how to break the news to him without hurting his feelings."

    I suggest at least having a platonic relationship. Sometimes the concern over physical attributes goes by the wayside as the relationship matures.

    Things may end eventually and feeling may get hurt. It's like stubbed toes while going barefoot or the pinch of rose thorns. Nothing is experienced without at least trying. That's life.

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  12. egger

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VlRXQEA0yj0"]Jimmy Castor Bunch - Troglodyte - YouTube
     
  13. egger

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    Nah. That's way more unethical than GMO corn and soy.
     
  14. loncho

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    I agree with this. It seems most people think of the idea of soulmates as the love of their life and have a hard time understanding that that amazing person you just met (although it feels you've known for a lifetime or 2... Or 3...) doesn't have to become a romantic partner, a boyfriend or girlfriend.


    You can deeply love someone and not being in love pr physically attracted to them.


    In my experience, soulmates are people you find that rock your world, you learn lessons from them, and they remind you of who you really are.


    To the OP, try to keep that friendship with her. Being honest about you not being attracted to her will hurt her, but that's how we learn in life. Maybe don't be as straightforward about it. When it comes to attraction usually there's a lot of ego involved and that can screw things up.

    Hope that whatever happens, you get to keep her friendship.
     
  15. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    I understand the preference, but not the need. How literally should we perceive this 'need'? :p
     
  16. Gyro Gearloose

    Gyro Gearloose Senior Member

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    Hello,

    I'm tall, nearly 2 meters. Once I wandered the local shopping promenade with a woman that was taller than me and people watched at us. I don't know if they watched because she was tall or because she was taller than me. Anyways, that was not my kind of fun. If I wanted to be watched I would strip down my trousers ;).

    Regards
    Gyro
     
  17. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    If you're big on dropping your trousers in public I recommend doing it often as well as a way to find your soulmate :daisy:
     
  18. Gyro Gearloose

    Gyro Gearloose Senior Member

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    Hello,

    I'm sure that would bring me into the local evening news and.maybe to some other places ;). I'm sceptical about finding my soul mate this way. But who knows, maybe I should give it a try ;).

    Regards
    Gyro
     
  19. Gyro Gearloose

    Gyro Gearloose Senior Member

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    Hello,

    I can see this as a problem for women. But since I'm tall and women are very very rarely taller than me I'm not part of the problem too often ;). I have more often a problem with women, or people in general, that are way smaller than me. I have to look down on them which feels awkward to me.

    Regards
    Gyro
     
  20. ginalee14

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    My daughter is 6 feet tall. I always tell her she's that tall because she's somebody to look up to. Aww...

    Yeah, it's not easy for tall females. :(
     
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