Soul mate?

booty call

 

There could a point where your personalities and minds are clicking, the physical attraction might come later.

Personally for me I find that if I find someone really interesting I will end up with a physical attraction to them when I didn't at the first stages. There comes a point where they're so interesting.. I just need to sleep with them. =p

 

And you think I would do that?

 

No, never. Where would I ever get that idea.

 

Perish the thought!

 

Asshole.

 

I'd have to agree with what everyone else is saying. If there's no actual sexual attraction, don't go into it hoping there will be later. Not only for yourself, but for her as well.

Enjoy her and her company but be completely honest about where you stand and don't ever let her think you DO have a sexual attraction or she will expect it to always be there in possibly hopes for a relationship.

And I don't think you would want that for her.

Personally, I've spent most of my life rushing things trying to find that special person. It's really easy to jump into something you think you want and build up this great idea of a life with both of you in it but it's ALWAYS different than what you expect. And if you already feel THIS way, it will only lead to you feeling as though you compromised things you wanted just because you thought you saw something with someone you have things in common with.

Respect her and yourself by staying true to yourself. There's plenty of room for a fantastic friendship if you can do that.


<3 Bunnie

 

I pretty much said the opposite.
I think the OP is the type of person to disregard everything anybody says and just follow their own heart. The thread was probably created to gauge others opinions and reactions only, but they'd most probably already have the answer set in their hearts.

 

Tonight I told her how I felt in a very subtle way, and she said she feels friend-zoned and deflated. Now I feel guilty.

 

Of course she feels friend zoned you friend zoned her lol. It's easy to feel guilty in times such as these but try not to. There is someone better matched for her out there.

 

Aww. It must hurt.

 

Well maybe its not actually a negative situation.
I mean yes you could stay as really good friends and get a huge benefit from that for your whole lives.

2ndly, maybe you will become attracted to her. It doesn't necessarily mean that someone is some sort of sado-gimp if his mrs is taller than him. I mean Bernie Ecclestone (Formula 1) probably is. But Sylvester Stallone's 2 wives were way taller than him. Same with Tom Cruise.

3rdly its always better to spend time with kindred spirits/soul mates.
I've only ever known a tiny number of people like that. But it can be incredible how with some people there's an infinitely bigger connection in so many different ways.

 

You're not dark, you have dark hair!!!

 

She could totally be his Katie Holmes, except Katie was hotter than Tom, and more sane too.
And Nicole Kidman was waaaaaay out of his league, too classy.

 

Friend-zoned. Everyone has probably been there. It happened to me when I first told my wife how I felt about her. Then she married me so things can and do change. A point that I've come to learn about attraction.....it changes over time. My wife was (is still) beautiful, very smart and probably "out of my league". I was attracted to her as much for her brain as her beauty but I definitely thought she was hot. Over a decade later....I find her most attractive when she's done nothing to enhance herself. First thing in the morning, no make-up, messed up hair, maybe wearing flannel pants and a t-shirt, drinking her cup of coffee....she's perfect.

 

Didn't you once make a whole thread about how fat people suck?

 

yeah

 

I don't see how height should be an issue for PR, he doesn't look like a midget anyway. Some men date really tall women, like models, and its considered a status thing, not a negative. I've dated girls who were really tall in high heels, never thought it was bad.

Scientology must be one powerful organisation. I know he's made the best of himself, but WTF..

I think he actually made his break in Risky Business, because he was more likeable, slightly ungainly type who didn't seem to treat himself too seriously. Then he just became a tit, IMO.

 

Brainwhasing...I mean powerful 'tech' on a weak mind.

Even Xenu can't pray away his gay so they grow him Beards. :biker:


Re: soul mates
As with most things, my point of view can be summed up with a Tim Minchin tune

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zn6gV2sdl38"]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zn6gV2sdl38

 

It's not just her height, he likes petite women, and she is rather big-boned (not fat)