Sorta silly but...

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Strangeness, Apr 25, 2007.

  1. Strangeness

    Strangeness Member

    Well this IS sorta silly but how old should a boy friend be like IM 14 now and what ranges is appropriate. I know some people will be inclined to ahve a older guy because well theres not too meny gay people out in the open. Heres any ways. So I was wonder what ages is apropriat like 14-17? or what?
     
  2. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    why don't you just try and enjoy your youth, it will be over before you know it
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  3. Strangeness

    Strangeness Member

    hmm just curois Im always so. Isolated. and lonely.
     
  4. CrazybutLazy

    CrazybutLazy Banned

    I like that picture in your sig, Strangeness.
     
  5. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    not to mention that at age 14 anyone that touches you will be breaking the law, if you feel isolated join a youth group
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  6. CrazybutLazy

    CrazybutLazy Banned

    It's not illegal if the two people are both under the age of consent though, is it? I've never been sure about that and would like to know.
     
  7. Geneity

    Geneity self-proclaimed advocate

    Well it doesn't really matter if you love the person. You're 14, and I'd say you could date someone up to 17 or 18 without much question, but higher then that and people would talk behind your back. Say if you were 30 and you dated somone that was 37, it wouldn't matter nearly as much. Young years are very controversial among the young and old.

    I'm 18, and I'd date anyone from 16 to like 20 or 21. However I'd prefer someone who is 17-19. My boyfriend turns 18 in like a week =P
     
  8. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    in the uk the age of consent is 16, so anyone over the age of 16 would be breaking the law dating somone younger than 16
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  9. Isil

    Isil Member

    In love age is of no concern >.<

    But...those relationships of sorts in which youre simply dating, and not necessarily in love, well...I dunno. Its all up to you.

    If you wish to date a 57 year old man from Patagonia, go right on ahead.
     
  10. Geneity

    Geneity self-proclaimed advocate

    Yeah, it's rare for the police to find out and pursue people who are close in age, but one is over the age of consent. Say like 16 and 18. I'd have to say although that is technically illegal, it would be of no concern to me if I were the 18 year old. (Talking US terms, the consent age is 18)
     
  11. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    it would depend on what age group you see as being a child, I think at the age of 14 a person is still a child, they may be mature, they may be boardering on adult hood, but they are still none the less a child
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  12. Strangeness

    Strangeness Member

    were I live age of consent is 14. thanks for teh compliment. and I wasent sure About sex Youth groups here are full of i/straight grils. Lol
     
  13. Samhain

    Samhain Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

    well go and have fun with them if your lonely, life doesn't all have to centre on sexuality
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  14. Isil

    Isil Member

    But it does have to center on grapefruit.
     
  15. Geneity

    Geneity self-proclaimed advocate

    Yeah I'd say anyone below 16 is more or less still a child relationship-wise.
     
  16. Strangeness

    Strangeness Member

    But it does have to center on grapefruit.

    Whats that soposed to mean? XD
     
  17. Strangeness

    Strangeness Member

    yes I do see your point. Geneity
     
  18. purpolstar

    purpolstar Member

    you don't have any friends right now? someone to just hang out with?
     
  19. Strangeness

    Strangeness Member

    not really. theres people I chat with but No real friends.
     
  20. Geneity

    Geneity self-proclaimed advocate

    Ah suck! Making friends isn't hard. But at the same time it is. Try making friends in your area over myspace if your shy. That's how I met 2 of my boyfriends. It works out surprisingly well. Be careful though =P
     

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