Something I'm Interested In Trying...

I've been to a few different places online, looking for a very specific arrangement for nearly two years now. But I have yet to find it, and it's really frustrating me! I want two bisexual men to be intimate in front of me, but for it to be natural, not like they're trying to be porn stars, lol! Are there any bi guys on here that might be interested in something like this? Or, maybe, some of you can put in your two cents as to why I haven't received responses in the past. I mean, I know it's not common, but it's not like it's never not been done, either... I'm a lesbian, BTW

 

Think of why should they be doing this in front of you? What's in it for them?

Most dudes enjoy the play. Relatively few guys enjoy being watched if it happens so. Very, very few guys will take any action to actively procure a passive voyeur to a m2m scene.

Consider offering something in exchange.

KD

 

You say what's in it for them. But wouldn't being watched be a turn on, and classify as receiving something in exchange? I would also touch myself while it was happening. I just wouldn't want to be touched.

 

Being watched alone has turned out to be somewhat of too meagre an incentive, so far. By your own account, you have been trying to find the willing players for two years without any apparent success. I see that you find this to be frustrating.

Much in sex has something to do with complex symmetries. Everyone has to perceive him/herself as getting his/her fair share of fun. Spice up your offer by adding the bit of letting them watch you masturbating, as opposed to just "touching yourself", and your chances will go up.

Typically, bisexual men do not like to be perceived as gay men. The two of them having sex with each other alone is likely to look too much like gay sex to them, unless you offer some interaction to change the narrative into being bisexual.

Please, do not get me wrong here. Tons of bisexual men have sex with each other in apparent absence of any female. Now, having a female just look, and do nothing may not really be hitting the right nerve with them. Why are they bisexual if they cannot get a female involved into play, at least to some degree?

Purely gay dudes may have reservations performing for a women. I imagine doing it with another dude for a very good friend as a special favor but would not consider doing it for anyone who happens to just like the scenario.

KD

 

There have been individual men that have messaged me for more info, and asked if part of the deal was getting to watch me masturbate, and I agreed. Still nothing materialized. Yes, gay guys would get totally weirded out by the idea. I have a gay male friend, and can just imagine his reaction. That's what I've proposed in my ads is, that we get to know each other first and become very good friends. Another thing that would be in it for them, if they want children, is for one of them to provide the sperm, so I could perform a home insemination. Where's people's imagination and sense of adventure?! Lol!

 

For me I would of done instantly back in the day as I like being watched.
After years of not being with a guy I lately fantasy about mm and my girl. Or
Any woman present but always envolved somehow. Complete turn on
For me. As to me I don't find enjoyment just mm but I must lol.
Ghost I'd be down;

 

Okay, where are you located?? Lol! Or, you'd be down, if you didn't have a girl, you meant?

 

[SIZE=10.5pt]I have a question, you are a lesbian or maybe bi by the sound of this, which ever. Would you have lesbian sex while a man watched and played with himself?[/SIZE]

[SIZE=10.5pt]I am into oral sex with men and have been watched by my wife. So I would give and receive oral sex with a man in front of another woman. [/SIZE]It would really turn me on watching a woman masturbate while getting my cock sucked. Although I would probably try for the full 3some or at least giving her oral too.

If you want to know where I am, pm me.

 

...10 years ago when I was younger & still playing I would have been more than happy to have accommodated you...I loved to be watched sucking dicks...

 

Average Ordinary Guy: Yeah, I would be into having a guy watch me with another girl, as long as he returned the favor by letting me watch him with another guy.

charles-smythe: Cool! I'm more into the bumming than the sucking, though

 

I actually tried to suck a guy in front of my girlfriend but things went wrong. Was talking to this girl at work that wanted to watch 2 guys go at it and i told her i might help her out if i was ever single

 

Recently I've been fantasizing about sharing a dick orally with another man. It's something I would love to do and I think it would exciting and stimulating and of course amazing for the one receiving pleasure from two wet mouths.

 

Love the post Bellefleur.

I've been quietly encouraging my wife to share a dick with me for a while. Like you, I think it would be very exciting for all concerned; not just the man we are enjoying.

 

Was trying to get a bi guy to dp my wife but she got mad when she found out. She said fantasy should stay fantasy

 

ghost0309 - yeah this has always been a thing for me too. I've had the opportunity but I chickened out a couple of times.

Are you in any swinging groups where you live? There are plenty of patient couples out there who I am sure would be able to accommodate you as a viewer.

What's the scene like where you live?

 

No, no swinging groups, but I never thought to get involved in that! How, though? Online?