ok i'll just get right to it. first off im a guy, i've been in a relationship with this girl for about 2 years. it was always rocky, on and off, yadda yadda yadda... so this past friday we had another break up. this relationship was abusive. she'd always hit me, throw shit at me, spit at me, threaten me with knives, threaten me with saying she'll destroy my pocessions, etc. i've never laid a hand on her that way and usually this happens only when the arguments turn to screaming. so i ask her why she does this, and she says it's because i dont comfort her when she cries. she then and goes on and says that she will do that every time i "scream" at her and feels she has every right to. now obviously i know i have issues so that's not what im looking for. but i want to know how the hell do i move on? im sick and tired of this shit but it's just so hard for me to let go. another dumb move i did was neglect my friends so i can give her all of my attention. if i didnt she'd think i was cheating or that i dont love her enough. so stupid ass me chose her. what should i do folks?