Somebody give her a burger!!

Oh and the funny part is that that burger wouldn't change the majority of the skinny girls, most of them can eat whatever they want anyway

 

I see skinny girls give fat chicks a lot more grief about being fat than the other way around.

 

Really? I don't see that at all

 

True. I think skinny ridicule is more of a rarity, but it happens.

 

i'm glad you made that point. people just assume if someone is slim that its cos they don't eat enough.and they understand that we are just naturally built slim.i have'nt had to many bad expereinces,but i had a few women be bitchy ta me for being slim.everyone is made in their own shapes and sizes.i don't go around taking bout other women like,so i don't see why they should be mean ta me for no reason either.it's dumb!

 

The part I highlighted and stuff is kinda not true........

I hear just as many skinny girls remarking about bigger chicks as I also hear other side of it too about skinnier chicks needing to get meat on them bones......

As women we are our own worst enemy, we pick ourselves apart with each other and talk and gossip.

 

I hate it too - I have always wondered what would happen if I responded to the 'Are you anorexic question?' with 'Are you obese?'.

 

Yeah, it's called Phat Kidz by Twiztid. I always throw it in fat threads in forums. :daisy:

 

That was really the least important part of the thread... Read my first post

 

I guess you're right. That sucks

 

It's just a matter of what looks unhealthy.

 

I think a whole lot of women are just too judgemental. We're supposed to be sisters not backbiting, bitching, critisizing pieces of shit! It's all to do with self esteem or should I say lack of it. It makes me sick! We all need to treat people how we find them not judge them by size shape or style!

 

It is because skinny people get idolized so fat people need to find their own way to feel beautiful. Most of the people who comment rudely on someone being skinny are probably jealous and/or insecure and need to make someone feel like they are flawed too.. Unless someone is anorexic, or dieting the the extreme, and they are genuinely concerned about their heath..

I am sure people feel like it is alright to comment on being skinny because most people want to be skinny, so they think it is ok. In the meantime people tip toe around saying someone is fat, even to the point of lying to them about it,, because fat people are generally looked at as not attractive.. That is not the case all the time, there are curvy girls that are not fat and skinny girls who have curves.. There are pretty girls who are 'fat' and ugly girls who are 'skinny'

In GENERAL though.. People think skinny people are better looking. And it makes sense, Being 'skinny' is healthier than being fat.. So someone who wants a healthy lifestyle will generally consider a skinny person better suited for them..

Basically It is rude to comment on someone's weight in a negative way, even if it is in a joking matter.. skinny or not.

 

i completely agree

 

Good point

 

Being skinny doesn't necessarily mean you're in better health. Skin and bones aren't anything nice to look at either. Bigger girls typically have a lot more personality and they're fun to be around because they don't care. Last thing you want when having a night out is some skinny little princess who doesn't want to eat because she might gain an ounce while the bigger girl wants some motherfuckin mcnuggets! Bigger girls walk down the street with absolutely no fucks given, skinny girl side stares at all the windows she walks past to check her figure. It's mentally kind of fucked up.

 

Wow that is so wrong lol. Today I was with a 'bigger' friend at starbucks and I was eating like crazy, my friend asked me 'how the hell can you eat all that?". Also if you read all of the posts, I'm not the only one who can eat whatever without getting fat.

You basically just did all of the things that I was asking about in my first post. You just assume that a skinny person is automatically a princess with no personality and you say that there is nothing nice to look at either.
So please answer my first post, what is the satisfaction you get from a comment like this?

 

There's probably a really big cultural difference between what we both think is "skinny". Skinny to me is skin and bones. Rib cages poking out, collar bones sticking out, knee and elbow joints highly irregular looking and jelly like. I find it really unattractive. I find it highly unhealthy, yet according to some of the other women, conforming with social standards this is a perfectly healthy lifestyle.
And I never said all skinny girls were princesses. I never pluralized the word once. I was targeting a specific type of slim girl. The ones that are too afraid to have a good night because they're too concerned with what they look like in a reflection.
And what do I care if you or others indulge in overeating and don't put on weight?
There is no satisfaction in my comments, they're just personal observations.
Maybe you see things different in your part of the world, with your societies standards and your cultural variances.