some questions about R with GF/viagra

new to the forum.

with my gf for some years. always had this issue where id get flat after a short time, then hard again over and over. multiple times of trying. sometimes not being able to finish

I was considering getting some blue pills. I have not spoken to her about it. but I think 1, it would help my confidence and it would help me stay stiff longer. but 2 my worry is her being insulted I need "aid" to perform.

im curious if women get offended that a guy need help and may think they need it because they arent attracted to their lady.

some insight from others

 

I would recon that its all in your head and you need to get past it You can get pills and keep your lady happy also.

 

I agree with Topper that it's probably in your head, but you don't say how old you are and that could be a factor.

In any case, get 'em. I think your lady would be happier with a hard drive than she would be with a floppy.

While you're seeing your doc, ask if there could be some physical problem. If so, it might be a simple fix. Any diagnosis might also serve as direction to a non-Western remedy.

I think it's unfortunate that the cock relies on an often temperamental vasoconstrictive system, rather than on a skeletal muscle system. If it was the latter, we could all go to the gym and work on our Schwarzendicks. Do you even lift, Bruh?

You might want to look at your porn/masturbation habits. If you're accustomed to porn and your hand, know that real-world bodies and situations seldom match up to the fantasies. Masturbate less and change up your routine.

 

Several really good points from above posters.
I will add that Cialis comes in a 2.5mg daily maintenance dose. Don’t be afraid to ask your doctor for it. It is a quality of life for your sexual health. I don’t take it daily but if I know we will be playing with others on a weekend, I will start taking it several daily before. It a great way to combat ED concerns. I am 71 and that’s my regiment. I’m ready when the play starts. women don’t care how you got hard…they just want it hard.

 

In my opinion, a partner is very open to whatever it takes to make for a satisfying coupling and someone who you're comfortable enough to be intimate with is very likely to be comfortable with knowing that you're enhancing your efforts. Talk it out and you'll likely be surprised at how much relief you'll get in more ways than one!