So this gay dude

You can share space and not be friends. Just explain to her that you have a romantic interest, not a platonic interest. And that you need your space.

If that's what you want to do, of course.

Here I go, giving advice again.

 

i think she's a lost cause... i wasn't her friend until she needed an excuse not to be with me... i rarely even speak to her anymore and when i do she usually initiates it... and i thought i had made it pretty clear that i had never wanted to be her friend either...


and ok, you've proven that you can come out of the friend zone, if you have the opposite personality that i do and try desperately for like 5 years...

 

yeah, that's what it all keeps coming down to... i guess...

 

Just have a girl come by and visit you at work. Watch. She'll be interested again.

 

Hahaha!!!

Well Walt is super shy and is very quiet. I feel like I've won the lottery if he talks to me for longer than 30 minutes. It took Walt two months to get out of the friend zone.

Adam made it hard on himself. :tongue:

 

as stupid as it sounds, i have seen such things work before...

we don't actually work together though, we just have to deal with each other a few times a week due to work...

plus i'm not sure what girl i'm supposed to get to come visit me...

 

The girl you're gonna pick up this week, my man. The girl you'll pick up THIS week.

Of course it works.

 

so if this isn't too personal, how exactly did quiet walt manage to get himself out of the friend zone, and what did he fuck up to get himself put back in?

 

She explained it in the post. How he got out, that is.

 

Walt showed actual interest. He didn't let me go a day without him flirting with me in some way....some of the things he said and the things he did. We took an art class together....he said that he wanted to paint my portrait.....he made me look like a homeless man (intentionally). We cracked up.

Umm how did he mess it up? Rejection. So I put him back in the friend zone and helped him hook up with one of my friends.

 

Cool girl. Walt seems like a cool dude too.

 

well he sounds like someone that a woman would want for a friend...

are you saying he rejected you? because that completely doesn't make sense, whereas if you rejected him i'm not sure why you would even be telling me this...

 

Yeah he rejected me.....later. Ok I took a the TLW vow and Walt knew about it. I no longer gave a shit about my vow...but uh he wouldn't let me. I felt hurt and rejected so I put him back in the friend zone. Does that make a bit of sense?

 

except for TLW... i looked it up on google and assuming it's the first result and not "the liverpool way," then yeah, i understand the predicamant...


although as far as semantics go, i'd have to say you rejected each other in that case.

 

As a fagg0rz myself, I can reliably inform y'all that we don't cockblock you; we just save you from yourself when you've got no chance.

So you cockblock him, basically?