So this gay dude

Yeah something like that. Just to add that much needed tension. At least, that's what I'd do.

 

haha, that would also be pleasant, but it's real hard to take time off with the current job...


also, ironically, i was recently invited to take a trip with the woman in question and her boyfriend...

yeah, i was unavailable for that one...

 

Try not to get frustrated buddy. I know it isn't easy, but shes either someone your going to have to eventually make a move on or get over.

You can meet women anywhere, it's just best to look for places where there more easy going. He'll you can meet a woman at a sandwich shop real easy.

Make a joke about Jared threatening to beat you up if you didn't eat there, ask her name, and tell her you want to eat with her. If shes on the run, tell her you want her number.

I'm not saying to hit on every woman you meet, just introduce yourself to more women. Fuck the friend zone. If you like a girl the friend zones temporary and negotiable.

just go for it is all I'm saying. I have faith in you if you'll just get out there.

 

I hate to admit it, because I've always said you guys just play the odds.

But I think you know your stuff Hyphy.

 

i still don't buy this...


but i do appreciate the advice, and other than a couple tidbits here and there, it does make sense...

 

Hello!!!! I have a vagina and I told you that you can get out of the friend zone. C'mon man.

 

lol! I think someone is speaking from experience on the matter. Listen.

 

bless the soul that made you my friend! Respect The friendship zone is a weird place to be though i admit. 100% possible to get out though. For sure.

 

well i have a penis and i can tell you that i'll cut it off and mail it to you... doesn't mean it's true, especially since it's quite easy to tell friendly white lies to someone who lives 1000 miles away that you'll never meet...



it's still a nice thought though, so thanks for that...

 

I have dated several girls who started out as friends, it works out fine for a lot of us, and perhaps in this case for you, perhaps not. But that doesn't mean it's not true.

I have no reason to lie to you Underwear. I don't care to spare your feelings. And if I thought you were destined to be alone I would tell you, or more likely not even acknowledge you in the first place.

Your call Bryan.

 

*sigh* Well the asshole that I took out of the friend zone is Makaveli_Reborn. If that helps any. I also let my friend Walt out of the friend zone for a bit.....but that didn't work out.

The friend zone is just a way to hang on to a great guy. I promise. It's not that you or any other guy or girl is seen as friend only....it's like a safety net.

If you are told that you are like a brother.....you have no shot in hell.

 

I thought the friend zone was a great way to start a relationship.

 

In my experiences, passionate relationships usually start off passionatly.

 

OOOOH SHIT. Revelations!

P.S. The other day you wouldn't tell me for shit!

 

yeah, i'm not sure what that was supposed to do for me...


but i suppose it's good to know that i'm there as a backup in case peoples' real plans don't work out...


"It's not that you or any other guy or girl is seen as friend only....it's like a safety net."

so when she says that if i wanted to date her i shouldn't have become her friend... she's actually joking and means that i should touch her innappropriately?

 

Uh. No. That point is past.

I say, cut her off for a little bit. Did you even reveal your romantic interest yet?

 

Sorry. Oh yeah about my experience with having gay men as friends.

My gay friends are more critical of guys. My girl friends are hussies and are trying desperately to get me laid. :tongue:

But yeah my gay friends are more sensitive to my emotions I guess and don't want to see me hurt.......but that may be due to the fact that we live in the Bible belt and they are hurt emotionally every time they turn around if they let their guard down.

 

You thought I was telling a white lie.

She may be like me and worried that dating a friend will ruin everything......which can be true. That doesn't mean that you don't have a shot. Remember unless you are told you are like a brother you still have a chance.

Haha no don't touch her innappropriately unless you get the vibe that she wants it.......and don't let a desperate want on your part to be that vibe.

Give her some space. Let her know that you aren't just a friend.

 

THERE you go. And don't just hang around waiting for shit. There is more fish in the sea.

 

yeah, she definitely knows i was interested at one point at least... and if she thinks anything has changed then she is completely in denial...

cutting her off completely is impossible because we kind of work together...