so sick of this place

relax, why are you seriously going crazy (and yes, im sorry but your acting crazy) about what people say on a computer...

 

oh, and litos, why do you think that I'm too immature to have a baby?
yeah, I got mad that other people were saying things like, "I was looking for pitty," and that I "need to be fucked to feel pretty."
besides how I reacted to that, where do you find the proof that I can't have a child? i work, I keep my home clean, I pay my bills, I don't go out, and yes, I get mad when someone insults me. That sounds pretty normal to me.

 

i don't know.....pregnancy hormones.......
i guess that I'm just upset because I don't have many friends around home(almost everyone my age is out at the bar, which doesn't intrest me), and I was just looking for some people to talk to. I had no idea that asking an opinion about an argument would end up in pm's to me being called an immature slut.

 

I never called you a slut (although I see how one could elude that). It was a play off of "don't have a baby when you are still a kid". I also never once said that you slept with more than one guy. Do not "put words in my mouth" when I didn't say things like that. You can't have a baby if you keep your legs closed (metaphorically speaking, I know there are positions in which the legs can be closed). I know most of the people my age and especially below (which I am not that old nor that far out of being a kid myself) are NOT mature. Everyone seems to THINK they are but in reality we all have a LOT to learn. This is why the phrase "respect your elders" comes into play. Our seniors (i.e. people MUCH older than us) have a ton of experience and who I would call the truly mature people in the world. The rest of us are still living and making mistakes. Personally I come from a foster home and also being adopted. My mother was older than you are and in the same situation (for all intents and purposes) that you are. Loved the bf, wanted to get married, in college, all that jazz. I've also seen way too many teen pregnancies in my area and I'd say that hardly any of them that I have seen have ever worked out or been a good environment for the baby. So in my experience, its not a good idea nor do I think someone of my age even should consider having a baby. Keeping your home clean and paying bills can be far different from having the finances to support another life. Also you DID ask for the opinions and I gave mine. I'm sorry that you didn't agree with what I wrote but that is still my opinion on the situation. Judging by the nature of the internet there is no real concrete way to get solid "proof" of anything. Merely what we know from what people type. From what you type I wouldn't consider you mature enough to have a baby, and I also doubt your funds at the time as well. I know what a typical 18 year old makes in terms of money and it is not enough to support a child. I merely commented on all of that in a very short concise manner. I apologize that you misunderstood my message, but I do not believe from what you typed that I was wrong. Its only the internet, if you ask people WILL give any and ALL opinions of what you put. There were far more people agreeing with my line of thinking as opposed to agreeing with you. Maybe I put it more "harshly" than anyone else though, it happens.

-Litos

P.S. Too tired to keep typing, ask if anything else is required.

 

I still haven't forgotten the hate mail you sent me, twat

 

Yes neither have I.

You fall under the catergory of "some people are just jerks"

I'll defend my opinion to the death. twat

 

Free speech is meant to protect opinions, not feelings.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not sticking up for guy... he sounds like an asshole, But when you post something personal, you're going to end up gettting opinions you don't like.

You can either get hurt by an idiots words over an internet forum, or you can brush yourself off, tell yourself his opinion doesn't matter, and block his ass if you need to. (click on his name, click view profile, and click add to ignore list.)

Idiots opinions only matter if you let them.

Take it easy. :H

 

People can STILL give you bad rep, but your "score" just doesn't show up, and you can't see your points.

Last word on Rep Points, now.

 

I understand where your coming from.
Oh, and about the slut thing. I know that you didnt call me that. Someone else did. i was refering to other people, too. Sorry if that's what it seemed like. i didn't appreciate the "close your legs, i can feel the breeze" comment.
No, we don't make a ton of money, but it's a lot more than what my mom raised me and my sister on, and i had a childhood just like everyone else's. I don't have any complaints. Ok, maybe I would have liked a horse.....what little girl wouldn't?
My boyfriend is also a little older than me, and makes a decent amount of money for not having graduated high school (not because he didn't want to, he had to stop), but we're both going back to school once we can. we'll also be recieving child tax benifits and things (all families in alberta get that if they make under $33 000/year), which would help out, too. I know we can do it. If I sit there and say, "shit, what did i do, we can't afford this," we're not going to get anywhere. Instead, you have to look foward and see that you can make it work, which I know we can.
As for getting pregnant at my age......well....yeah, that was a little dumb. But I also know that I can do it. I've been living on my own/with my bf for 2 years now, so since I turned 17. I know I don't know much, but I'm learning, and I know I'm a lot more mature than most 18 year-olds are out there. Yeah, there's some things that I wanted to do, and I'll still do them, but I just have to wait. There;s a BUNCH of mom's on these forums my age and younger who sound like their great parents.
Yeah, I've seen a couple teen pregnancies go verrrry wrong. one old friend even killed her baby. it's people like her who shouldn't have kids. But everyone in my family was or was close to being a teen mom. Everyone has grown to have successfull buisnesses, nice homes, and have had a great standard of living. It's people like that who I look to. I know that a lot of you think that I'm not taking my baby's well being into consideration, which is so wrong and hurtfull, I can't even begin to describe it. I will love that child more than anyone will know. I know that. And in that case, i really don't care what anyone thinks, because I know the truth.

 

Being an adopted child I'm glad to know that abortion isn't one of your options. Like I said before I was just commenting on what I read from your previous posts. Although I do not know financial situations in Canada, (although I DO know they rip off us Americans who travel just across the border for some festivities), on another subject entirely, so I can't really comment on what it takes there.

-Litos

See now that was a civil conversation wasn't it.

 

awww lets all hold hands now guys

 

yes, that was a civil conversation. thank you. i'll try to make sure the rest of them go like that without my head pounding and turning red.
and yeah, I have to give canada credit. aside from our government being full idiots, they once and a while give us breaks. Free health care...to an extent....and many little tax benifits and stuff.

 

ha ha ha ha

-Litos

 

ok.....

 

That was in response to Mystical Shroom, not to you. Hence the laughter.

-Litos

 

thanx a lot

 

you know what little girl? If you want to start a whole thread about how much it sux because I called you out on something that NEEDED to be said, at least have the balls to talk directly to me about it.
And have the balls to quote the rest of my posts about you and your little problem, not just the insults after you refuse to listen and get offended when I don't sugar coat things for you.

I thought you said I was funny! I thought you said you didn't give a shit!

apparently, you have a big problem with what I said.

Listen, honey I'm sorry if you don't agree with what I said. But that's life and if you expect everyone to make a positive post on everything you ASK for an opinion on, you sure are going to be disappointed in life.

 

i agree with you. i as well came here looking for a place to discuss the revolution, protests, festivals, and other hippie-nesses. i was talking to this one girl and she said she was a prep. i was like "why are you in a hippie forum" she was like "50% of the people here arent hippies" it makes no sense because the title of this section of the forum is "hippies". we should accept everyone, but its hard when you were expecting something different and loving.

 

i swear who the hell are you to tell who can and cant post here..
if i see someone post this one more time, well i wont do nothing but really get a freaking life please...
you kids and your labels..

 

well, well, well. im just saying that i was expecting something different. why are you in a hippie room if ur not a hippie? it doesnt make sense. i didnt say you couldnt be, i was just wondering because its odd.