So question guys...prostate stimulation?

So basically how and why. For my husband's pleasure. He hasn't asked, but this sounds like something men often enjoy. I am a girl. Also any helpful responses from knowledgeable women

 

Anything from fingers,buttplugss, dildos and cocks....since you are a woman the last one is probably out of the question, and if you have long nails be carefull or use a buttplug on him.
ass to why, because it feels so damn awesome.

 

It feels great !!!! A finger, a butt plug, or a vibrating prostate massager made for that purpose will all be super stimulating for him. Just use lots of lube!!! Experiment with positions for him. Prostate stimulation is a SUPER addition to a handjob or especially a nice, slow blowjob. Your guy will be in convulsions when he goes off.

This is NOT a gay thing either, as some think. I'm 100% straight and when my wife stimulates / massages my prostate - it amplifies my orgasms big time. Lots of straight guys have found this to be extremely pleasurable. So if your guy is spooky about the "gay" thing - tell him to relax and enjoy!!! No offense to gay men - just trying to calm some unwarranted fears.

 

You're right. I also LOOOVE prostate play and the explosions that cum with it. What happens with the two of you in the bedroom (or you never know where else) stays between the two of you! My wife and I are the only ones that know my love for prostate orgasms and pleasure. (And everyone here ) Life is short, enjoy everything you can together.

 

Just start out with a playful lubed finger during a blowjob. Message it around on the outside for a while and move a finger in and out a bit to try him out - then move up to a full finger in and out, rubbing up toward his cock. Drives me wild.

 

Just watch the fingernails if you use that.... fingernails are not good

 

Very good point. Also remember to use lots of lube. You really can't use too much. Lastly, never use silicone lube with silicone toys, as this kind of lube will damage silicone toys.

 

But just do it !

 

My wife learned the techique for stimulating and draining my prostate, when I had a prostate issue..She would bring me to a NO HANDS orgasm, while she stimulated my prostate with a dildo. She became an expert at giving me intense orgasms with HUGE ejaculations.I don't know what she enjoyed more during her therapy, making me orgasm and cum all over myself or fucking my ass with a big dildo.

 

Topper - you ever have a recurrence of that "problem" - you know - periodic flare-ups?? Need more special prostate treatments??

 

I'm 75 years old and happily married to the same woman for 53 years. I've been a porn devotee since the first time I babysat for a neighbor and found his skin magazines. With that said, my wife and I watched and emulared porn consistently through our marriage, with the emphasis on anal sex. I know from research and personal experience that having something in your ass can be truly as good as it gets. Truth be told, not a day has gone by since my first erection that I haven't masturbated. It was many years ago that I bought a butt plug and realized that I could have a whole body orgasm with that plug in my ass. Anal penetration is more than just prostate stimulation. It's multi-faceted, not the least of which is knowing that you have something up your ass!

We've acquired so many toys over the years, vibrators, butt plugs glass dildos, strapons, a pussy pump, nipple rings, a veritable sex shop. we've settled on a a couple of glass insertables that have become regular bedtime playthings. With the advent of medical marijuana and cbd oil in general, we've found that the application of cbd oil on my wife's clit has totally changed our sex life. We indulged in anal sex for a while but she found my penis too intrusive. That does not stop her from willing accepting a finger or a glass dildo of appropriate size. It has become regular practice to have a dish of warm coconut oil by the bed, lubing up my ass and putting a six inch glass penis in. She is happy to have a knobby glass toy in her ass or pussy but not before carefully putting four or five drops of cbd oil on her clit and lips. The cbd oil sets her on fire.

In all the years we've been married, my wife has never masturbated at least as far as I know. Within minutes of the application of the oil to her clit, she starts to fondle herself. Her degree of excitation has increased tenfold as has her willingness to move in different directions for porn. Ever since Fifty Shades of Grey, she's had an interest in BDSM. Now, with the cbd oil, part of her self-indulgence is slapping the crap out of her clit. To please her, I bought a riding crop. Her mulyiple orgasms are spectacular. All the while, I'm massaging her g-spot, or fingering her asshole, or fucking it with a glass dildo. When she's had enough, she'll attck my penis, taking as much of it in her mouth as she can. At the same time, she's fucking me with the glass penis that's been in my ass since we started. The sounds of the porn on the big screen accompany her actions. I can feel the dildo rubbing against my prostate. And then, I cum like a teenager.

My wife could keep going. Unfortunately, I'm one and done! The anal dildos, the cbd oil, the coconult oil and the pron get put away for another day. Maybe tomorrow!

 

I would add that prostate cancer is less frequent among those who indulge in prostate massage.

Just sayin'

 

That's wonderful that both of you continue to have fun and explore new things. I see me and my wife being the same way as our age increases. We got some spray cbd oil for sex. unfortunately we've been separated for 5 weeks due to all this nonsense. Haven't had a chance to try it yet. We can't wait!! Wonder how it would be on me?? Might just have to try some the next time I play. Have you tried it on anything besides her clit??

 

We've tried it on the head of my penis and on nipples, both hers and mine, but with no effect. My "research" has told me that the CBD oil increases blood flow. The clitoris and labia swell during excitement from a surge of blood to the area. (Basically, that what ED meds do but from the inside.) Since the clit and labia are so sensitive externally, the CBD oil increases that sensitivity, heightening the sexual excitation and makes achieving orgasm a cinch. My wife has been looking for some playtime but because we're just starting to open up our social life with backyard bbq's we haven't had time. Now, she's 72 years old and said to me, only moments ago, that she's going to take her little bottle of magic and have a good time for herself! If that happens, it'll be the first time in 53 years of marriage. That's how good the oil is!!

 

It's rare a woman of that age will still be able to have sex including intercourse either with a dildo or the real thing. In a British Longitudinal Study of Aging it was noted that only 34% of women from the age of 70 to 80 still engaged in sex and an Australian study revealed only 22% were sexually active. This parallels the majority of studies done with seniors. Count your blessings and enjoy until you are dead. Hopefully for at least another 25 years or more.

 

That's wonderful!! thank you very much. Enjoy your precious time together.

 

Guys, give it a try. It’s amazing. I have a prostate stimulator with variable speeds. Usually run it on lower speeds while I’m edging When I have the right spot and speed the precum just keeps dripping. When I cum it is a huge load. Have yet to get a blowjob while using it. Or give one to someone using one.

 

I enjoy giving prostate messages while sucking cock. I start by sucking his cock then I move my finger to his asshole if he seems to enjoy it I wet my finger in my mouth and sometimes I’ll eat his ass too, then I just slowly stick my finger in his ass and work it around a little then I’ll slid it in all the way and search for his prostate gland then I’ll work it with my finger tip while moving my finger up and down in his ass. I just keep sucking his cock while playing in his ass until he cums. It seems like they blow huge loads from this. Keep sucking and rubbing he prostate until he has completely finished cumming. I like to keep playing in his for awhile after I quit sucking his cock and move to Sucking and licking his balls for a while before I pull my finger out.