So my boyfriend just...

What he did wasnt so bad but how he reacted when you said that you didn't like it is rotten. Some people are so protective of their own egos that they won't even acknowledge when they have been hurtful. I guess your body is off limits to him until he realizes there's feelings attached.

 

ideally but doubtful.

 

Really? Some women when turned off can shut it down like turning off a tap and leaving it off.

 

Why doesn't masturbation solve this problem?

Girls tell guys to do that all the time if the guy has "blue balls" and the girl decides "yep, nope not tonight, or I change my mind".

 

I have seldom flat-out refused him (even when I am not involved directly, I will still be there with him while he finishes himself because he likes me to be there- to kiss, to grab a handful of breast, to rub his nuts, what-have-you), and if I did, it certainly wouldn't be after getting him halfway there already. I am a very sexually giving person. I realize not everyone is, and some people have hang-ups or just aren't in the mood. It was certainly not a matter of me thinking he is responsible for every orgasm I have from the time we met on. As I said before, I am perfectly capable of taking care of myself, but I don't cocktease unless I am going to follow through, maybe not immediately but I will. I was hoping for the same respect in return. I guess that was too much to ask.

 

Really? I never told my guy that, never thought of it, thanks! Haha

But seriously if anyone told the other here to do themselves it would be me being told I think. I am just always willing unless he tried it while I was asleep and couldn't wake up, but am rarely asked in the morning anyway. Day time or night usually.

 

Tell him you like him but that you're not gonna tolerate the way he acted. Tell them you're going to give him a spanking. After a slow & mellow warm-up spanking, spank him for real (but don't over do it) then make the spanking erotic.

 

i'm pretty sure they broke up like a year ago.

 

I've been awakened with my pussy being rubbed and my nipples sucked while the guy was jacking his dick. I was mad for being woke up at first period! But he wasn't selfish! And proceeded to lick me so he got his hard on sucked off instead of jacked off