So is he your boyfriend?

Hm I'm drawing a blank too, and I'm cold sober.

 

I have no clue porkstock, i remember the exact post you are speaking of, yet i can't find it ..... it wasn't that long ago....

But anyways, for anyone interested but confused, i often feel more female than male despite being a stereotypical male... can you explaion that? A stereotypical example often used is = "oh, you're so manly cause you do construction work and can cut down a tree".. that is verbatim right porkstock?

 

Is it possible that your mom is trying to open a conversation about all of this and just is not sure how to? Could you be missing her intention?

I read it and sat and thought a long time before responding to this. If this were my child and I wanted to initiate a conversation, I am not sure how I would do so. Even trying to do so without any form of a question or implied judgment would be very difficult as it is a really hard discussion to start.

I might very well start exactly where she did. Waiting for you to explain where you are with all.

Just my thoughts as a mom.

 

You don't have to do feminine things to be female or male things to be male.

 

Hmm, intriguing thoughts.

 

yes that's true, but based on my behavioural situation..... it is.. unfortunately........

 

Maybe her asking at all is the real deal here. If you are ready to talk to her about it, it might be a good time to think about it.

I do not know you well but from what I have read of your posts and what I know from those, I can not see you being content with not being who you are. Part of who you are also needs to be accepted for that with those that matter to you.

I love my two kids with all that I am and I do not know how I would approach this other than to start with some kind of a question and wait for their answer. I respect them far too much to not continue to love them, period.

My sister is gay and when she came out to us it was a mixed bag. My mom accepted as she is a mom, my dad had a hard time with that but within a week or so he came around as he stated "she is still mine", which for him was acceptance. I honestly had no feelings either way other than to know for her it was not a choice. No one would choose to have to put up with the crap that goes along with it from society if it was a choice.

*edit to add* I know your situation is not the same but being who you are is not any different. *end edit*

I think maybe you need to think and then decide what is best for you and how you want to live all the parts of your life as family is a part of that.

Wishing the very best for you as I think that is what you deserve.

 

My thoughts eggzakly. That's what I was wanted to say earlier, but just couldn't find the words.

Very well put, Heather. You always know how to verbalize your thoughts in a manner that doesn't sound so confusing, which isn't easy for some of us. lol You're a mother though, so maybe that's why, in this case.

 

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My mom understands everything i say, even if its gay.....typo?100% sure there is, somewhere,,, i don't care though,,,, love respect peace.. whatever.........

 

it was a thread by makesmommycry. about having ugly friends i think

 

Be grateful for the understanding that your parents have, even if it is little. Some hold none

 

wtf hold on

are you a strait dude, gay dude, dude chick, what the hell?

i'm really confused.

 

.....just a thought...if you pee sitting down always..your mom already knows something is up

 

I don't know about you but I go to the bathroom with the door shut.

 

I sell tickets when I go to the bathroom.

 

you could always rep me, let's spread love around the world.

 

exactly.you're a very lucky guy and best wishes to you

 

sure...rub it in that you can afford doors

 

haha

 

My goodness, clean your room!