So...is all "Free Love" is now wanting someone to bang your wife??

Why is every damn thread in this section only about "oh how I want to see someone bang my wife!!"
I thought Free Love was people having sex with who they want, not watching someone bang your wife?

 

I know what you mean. It does seem like that lately. The words “free love”does imply a broad scope of sex play. I personally would not share my wife, however I have no problem with those that do engage in this practice. It not much different that people who live in a open relationship. Maybe the forums should have a open relationship section.

 

I agree.
I personally, and I bet I am not alone, have little to no interest in 30 different "I want my BF to fuck my wife" threads. At least 3/4 are fake, and probably 3/4 of the rest just want to turn their wives into their own private live porn show.
Just sayin

 

its probably because its one of the biggest "legal" taboos, and can be sexually stimulating to some people, even if only in their fantasies.....

as far as wife sharing, it should not be a question of whether we would "let" someone bang our wife, but more about letting our partners be free enough to do as they wish as long as it is fun for them and not harming anyone... if they dont wish to have sex with someone else, then so be it, but if they do, why should any other person on the face of this earth be able to tell someone else they cant do what they want to do?... faithfulness?... there is no such thing as UNfaithful if everyone is in agreement.

my wife and I have an understanding that we shouldnt go looking for sex with someone else, BUT, if a situation arose where it is available and we are in the mood, go for it!.... no harm, no foul.. and we both want to have the freedom to tell each other about our adventures afterwards. it makes no difference if it is an adventurous roadtrip, hike, shopping trip, day at the beach or a random fuck, its an adventure and some are better that others....

I have been married for many years, and in relationships before and after that marriage ended, (remarried now to someone else) and having someone cheat or be deceitful is harmful and degrading, where as if you can rise to the level where you can openly give your spouse the trust and freedom to make their own decisions as to where they get their pleasure from, there is no harm or mistrust issues....

I have never "wanted" to watch someone to fuck my wife, or "wanted" to have her fuck someone else, but neither have I wanted to keep her from doing anything that she may find pleasure in or learn something from... nor cause her guilt because she may want to...
so, because of the freedom we have given each other, I have been able to experience her with someone else, and I get to be involved, and its not a bad thing in our experiences.... to me, its more akin to having a toy or possession that is so nice and unique that its fun to show it off to friends/others, and allowing them go for a ride on it... but its HER decision if she wants to let them ride, NOT mine....

and even more, (for me) is that she has a strong tendency to be Bi, and so when she has a friend over, and if things progress to the point where there is touching and feeling, I get to enjoy it all as much as she does, providing the friend has no objections.... and she has single hetero friends that come over and sometimes want a good fuck without the trouble of the head games from dating someone new....

in our situation, its very liberating to know that you can do anything, say anything andn flirt with whoever whenever and never have to worry about pissing off your spouse (as long as you dont become an asshole).... its a win all the way around.

we both know there is a huge difference between love and sex, and we both know that we are together for the love of each other and the sex is just a part of it.
and I know that no matter how many times she may get or has been boned by me or someone in her past, present or future, she isnt going to be "wore out", so it doesnt really matter...

and for those who may say there is an extreme risk of contracting an STD because of the "sexual freedom", I would say there is MUCH less risk than if you had a spouse that was secretly promiscuous.. (or if one were single and actively dating multiple partners), and that if one is careful, they can minimize the risk even further to the point that it becomes negligible (but this doesnt mean one should not remain fully aware of the consequences)...

freedom, free sex, or watching someone fuck your spouse is not the enemy of a relationship/marriage, but jealousy, secrets, anger and a controlling attitude are all enemies that are trust and relationship killers. its much better to share than be the person who kills an otherwise good, loving relationship. IMHO...

 

Agree,unfortunately for many,sexual openness in a committed relationship, will remain a fantasy or kept in a closet. Sadly,I for one are in that group. However, I have a very,very good sexual relationship with my wife. We are a senior couple.

 

It's because this board is for anyone to talk about what ever they're interests are sexually, including sharing wives. If you take away everyone who talks about that, then there would be far less contributors. Keep in mind, you and everyone else are free to talk what ever their interests are. If you want to discuss something else, then do it, don't criticize others for their interests. This board is for a wide range of sexual interests.

 

I suppose this is the most popular example of Free Love at this right moment. If it doesn't interest you, skip it and open any other interesting topic!

 

I like watching my buddies bang my wife. It’s like watching real porn and you know the actors

 

I am new to the forums and I actually though this category was for just what you stated ,bang my wife.

 

One would think.
Like I or anyone else cares if you want to cuckold... or turn your wife into a live porn show.
Hate to think this is what free love is today... a bunch of men more interested in watching their wife have sex with a friend than having sex themselves.

 

I am a middle aged married guy in a long committed marriage. A while back, my wife was going through some stuff and seemed to lose interest in sex. I became frustrated and did something I had not engaged in for many many years - I turned to porn. The stuff has changed a lot since I used to watch it and this is due to the internet and easy public postings. I quickly discovered the amateur home-made variety which affected me deeply, largely because it it so real, not staged like the old studio stuff, and because it was so relatable. I could imagine my neighbors and colleagues doing this stuff behind their closed doors. My downfall was quickly landing on a site that featured wife sharing and permissive adultery. I was literally shocked when I saw the first couple videos that unabashedly featured an able bodied husband handing his wife over to strangers that went straight to their bed. The first time I watched the act of adulterous infidelity, I was floored - but even more shocking was to see the husband being so excited by the process. My imagination was hooked and I sought out other videos which, amazing, were plentiful - all showing similar couplings. My shock quickly turned to excitement - for what reason, I had no idea. After a while, I began to observe just how EASY it was for those participants to engage in blatant adultery. Those outsiders seemed to have no problem or hesitation in penetrating a married woman.
I have read many articles and forums on this subject and have paid attention to other men (and women) regarding the quality of their marriage while living this lifestyle. Like so many other husbands, I have to admit that this way of living seems quite appealing and even desirable. To put it simply - I has acquired a desire to try it. My wife is a bit younger and she is fit. I have dipped my toe in the water so to speak as I have started taking my wife out to clubs (dance clubs, etc) and have noticed how others look at her.
I am at a crossroads as nothing has happened yet, though my wife clearly seems to like "getting out". Before going too far, I would love to hear other's opinions on the the path I am on.
I would love to exchange email at jpeepers340@gmail.com

 

just speaking for myself I would like to explore my sexuality with my wife. I love the idea of mfm play with my wife not as a cuckold but as an active participant. Ensuring my wife enjoys every minute of it.
I have had oral fun with guys and would love to explore that further including having my ass pounded by other guys and being pegged by my beautiful wife.
This would be my free love.