How long (weeks, months) did it take your ass to widen enough for you to take in butt plugs (or a real dick) with a "normal" circumference ("normal" is loaded, I know, but on average)? I'm using slim models just to get my ass accustomed to having plugs at all (fuck it feels good), and I get freaked looking at some of these ass-busters. Indeed, patience, daily or near daily practice, plenty of water-based lube applied all along the plug and anus itself, slow buildup (which by itself is a goddam treat), and...uh...yes! patience. So: When am I gonna be ready for Arnold Schwarzenegger??
Take it slow and gradually increase size of toys. Or get toys that gradually widen themselves, the deeper you go on it the more it stretches. Also try a lube injector, helps for ease of penetration even more so!
Flush out with warm water and your muscles will relax all the way. I did that my first time and I was able to insert a huge 18 inch double headed dildo very easily. I walked from the bathroom to the bedroom where she put the other end in her vagina and we took turns fucking for more that an hour.
I don't recall it taking long. I mean, the first time, it took a while to insert it all the way but that was a long session. A few years ago I had a series of colonic cleanses and the woman that did them told me how to relax and breathe as I was being penetrated and I remembered that technique when I did my own insertions. You do kind of get used to what to do when you're taking it. I know a TS girl who gets it in the backside all the time and it's second nature now so she really doesn't have to think about it pretty much no matter what the size. She says that it's harder sometimes to suck a big dick than it is to fuck one so just go slow and you should be fine. My FWB almost always takes a small toy in her bum while she sucks or usually when I'm down on her. She barely wiggles on it she's just used to it going in. When we''re in the shower she takes a much longer one in her ass and yes, it does make her slow down as she backs onto it but it's not so much fat as it is long. She prefers to feel it way up inside of her so she'll lube her hole up a little as she gets into the shower with me, start putting it in and then slide it about four inches maybe before she slows down. Then she'll bend over and hold my waist to start sucking my cock and I inch her back little by little until she bottoms out with her ass cheeks against the shower wall. She grunts a little as it goes all the way in and I don't think it really hurts. Not the width anyway but maybe the length. She likes to feel the intrusion in her ass and her pussy ends up soaking wet with a cock in her mouth and the long thing in her back end.
Yes, orgasm for her for sure. That's usually her third climax when we're together. That one she uses her fingers to get herself to cum and she just has my cock in her mouth and the suction cup dildo in her ass. I cum too of course and we try to time it together but that rarely happens.
Well she does do 2 men with her. Unfortunately, I'm not one of those guys. Long story. But we do enjoy our time together.
I've posted here a lot about our enjoyment. I do miss her former neighbor who unexpectedly turned out to be a great head giver and actually let me take pics. And...it was in a public area. I lost track of her but I'd make a trip if I knew where she was....
My wife worked my bung hole over about a six month period of time with bigger and bigger dildo's before she encouraged our man to fuck my ass with his cock. I now take his big cock with ease.
Honestly. Mine didn’t take that long started on some cheap metal plugs from Amazon 3 different sizes. Then went upto a small 5inch dildo for beginners and now on. 9inch length and 1.5” girth dildo from bondara. But I’ve had the head of my girls wand up there which is around 4inches. Using the right lube and being relax you can fit anything
My first plugs were plastic ones that didn't do much for me and were hard to keep odor free. My first metal one was the njoy Pure Plug medium which would slip out more often than I liked. The njoy large and 2.0 always stay in place, are VERY easy to keep clean and feel AMAZING
