SO I THINK IM GOIN TO AMSTERDAM!!!.. but theres a cacth

He's telling you that you can't trust him. Go with him have some fun. But realize long term-you can't trust him.

Next time you want him to do something that he's not into tell him "hey I don't know you better come with me-there will be some good looking guys there-you better come with me so I'm not tempted" See what he says. I bet the answer won't be pretty.

 

haha yeah i will

he wouldnt be too happy about that

taste of his own medicine

 

meh any guy would be tempted. i'm just surprised he asked you to go so that he won't be. it's a good thing, means he cares for you and doesn't want his male instinct to get the best of him and then somehow you find out and the relationship is over. go with him, he wants to spend time with you

 

I agree

 

go and have good time, think of the killer weed you will be able to smoke and your sister is going

 

yeeahh

and one of my bestfriends

high times

 

i think you need a new boyfriend?

 

possibly

 

Their you go win win

 

I dont know your relationship, so any advice is only at face value

but, a three year relationship is very serious(im assuming) and he has just expressed to you he wants to have sex with a hooker. That is not appriopriate and not just "male instincts". But the person who knows him best is you.

Go with your gut feeling.

 

Speaking for myself, if my boyfriend had that much an urge to fuck HOOKERS instead of waiting with anticipation to come home and fuck me, then...well..that just wouldn't work out for me .. lol


But three years, idunno. I can't tell ya about yer own relationship. Sounds like you should go have fun bein a stoney baloney in amsterdam..

 

if your bf would rather go bang a prostitute then you he's probably blind

 

awww :grouphug:

 

i could see this in a couple different ways

he could just be super excited himself and started making reasonings - perhaps not the best ones - for why you should go with

or he is a blind loser - in which case you could just move to the US, be closer to most of the SLers and date me


baha, anyways - you should go if you think you will have fun. maybe you will learn more incite on your relationship, too.

 

haha

 

Are you kidding me? Use the hell out of his ass for this trip, then dump him when you get back. Easy!

 

You're a fucking genius.

 

or convince him to fly you out to the good ol US of A and dump his ass once you are here

hahahaha
you should just talk to him, as he is the only one that knows what he was thinking when he was saying it - if you have been with him for 3 years then he should also be honest with you. if he tries some bullshittin then that may be something else that needs to be discussed

dont go down that path until he's bought you a lot of weed in amsterdam though

 

I didn't read all of the thread but I'm pretty sure your bf just wants to have a nice summer vacation with his gf in the pot capital of the world. That can't be too harmful can it?! Romance in Holland sounds sweet, have fun Lynzxx

Don't dump him, the prostitute thing was just a bad excuse to entice you to go.

 

wise words

thanks bonkai