would you call a woman who's sexually experienced a slut? let me clarify, this woman has had, lets say...two partners, with whom she had long term relationships and therefore lots and lots of sex and experimentation. she'd then be a real sex savvy...next she's in bed with you and she clearly seems to know what she's doing, so would you assume she's a slut because of this? i just ponder whether this qualifies as slut in your book
well, i've had a few partners, a lot of sex, a lot of experience and a lot of fun. i've never cheated on anyone or mislead anyone. i'm sure there's plenty who WOULD consider me a slut, based on numbers alone, but at least my track record proves i'm not a cheater. which would someone prefer?
Speaking of "sluts", I was watching this porno (yeah, yeah...) the other night and this chick was gangbanged by about six dudes...all blew their load of cum in her ****, and some other chick ate her out afterward. Kinda sick, but did give me a woody.
If you're asking me it's a combination of a lot of partners and cheating scores very highly on the slut scale too. I like women who have had stable monogamous long term relationships - they're in my experience better in bed and not as likely to hate you in some crazy bi-polar fashion. The hottest woman I know has had two sex partners her whole life and I'm only pissed I was neither of them. I'm well aware she has had shedloads of sex as well with her partners - this only adds to her overall hotness rating since it means that the next guy (puts up hand hopefully) will get to screw her brains out constantly.
Exactly , I'd freak if any one of my girlfriends (and I mean that in the non fucking sense) hooked up with a male slut. I know this one Italian guy (no offence I love Italians) with this cute German chic , sad thing is she loves him and he breaks that poor girls' heart like u wouldnt believe , we talk a lot (current gf isnt too hot about this) and I tell her the way it is but she can't listen. He's a useta-be friend as well - fucks fat chics too (his gf is damn hot). Shame to waste a good woman on a POS like that. EDIT: Bottom line - spend your time with peeps who like the opposite sex - not those who use em as a masturbatory tool cos of some childhood or pubescent insecurity crutch.
i dunno, i just figure if she wants to have a lot of sex, fine, as long as she's honest about things. for some people sex MUST go with love (for me, it doesnt need to be love, but i should like and care about her as a good friend at least), but for many people it doesnt always sync up, and some people just have sex for fun. as long as youre safe about it, its cool with me. i'm no good with an open relationship, but i dont think that being with multiple partners at the same time is necessarily a bad thing, either. i'll admit i'm a bit too jealous to go for an open relationship again, but its not that bad. because really, if they meet someone they like enough to leave you for, they're going to leave you for them whether they've had sex with them already or not. anyway, i dunno. i just think that everyone's way too uptight about everything, and people think that their way MUST be the right way, and anyone who lives or behaves differently is bad. it's rediculous....i've got to say, i'd be surprised if i end up sleeping with more then probably 10 women in my lifetime, its just not what i'm like....but if some girl has slept with 100 men, who fucking cares? sex doesnt have too much to do with being a decent, caring, and intelligent person, and having a lot of sex does not automatically signal a lack of capability to be in a committed, loving relationship. promiscuity may be a SYMPTOM of not being able to commit to or love someone, but it will never be a CAUSE of not being able to commit to or love someone. it all boils down to how sincere and caring the person is as a human being....not what their past sexual exploration has involved.
agreed, as well as some major homophobia i see going on around here by a few people. i dunno, i've been on here for a few hours today, and i got to say its depressing how many really stupid/ignorant/meanspirited people are on here. the vast bulk of posts are really incredibly worthless (many of mine as well, i admit) i dunno, lately i've been thinking more and more of what a waste of time this place is. i think i may soon need to leave for a while