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So.. Girls can get called a slut when they don't give out, and also when they sleep with anything that moves? *scratches head* I guess the meaning isn't focused enough for high school, so it gets used too often and not always with any particular insult in mind... But to have adults use it must hurt like mad.. I don't hear the word alot, but the true meaning is so singular (unlike bitch or slag) that you'd know exactly which part of you was being punched..
A lot of guys at my school call their ex's sluts. The funny thing is they say it like its a terrible thing to be, yet they didnt mind going out with the girl . I hated my first love for leaving me and i still do, never called her a slut though, as not many sluts would be with a guy for a whole year without cheating so...
That's the most sense making sense making i've ever read. unlike my sentence i just wrote right there.
It seems like everyone has already covered all the bases here on this question. Personally, I don't tell people things that I suspect will hurt their feelings. If I knew a girl well, I may flirt with her and call her a slut, if I knew she'd take it the right way. I really never use the word though. I believe that very sexual women should be described by words that have derogatory meaning. They should be reffered to in a neutral tone or a positive one. Ahh, I'm using too many words, but Alana, you're pretty cool.
My thoughts exactly. They still tell stories about me, four years later. Some have a (vague) basis in fact, but nobody's bothered to ask. The way I see it, unless you were in the fucking bed with me, you have no right to say shit. Besides, "slut" is relative. To some people, you're a slut if you've slept with three guys. To others, it's gotta be more than 50. And to a few, all it takes is one if it's a girl..... I think it's hurtful in the sense that the majority of people base that tag off of what they've heard instead of what may have actually occurred. Nobody needs to be branded like that unless they want to be, like Soaringeagle said.
I can agree with that. I can'y help wondering what it is you supposedly 'did' though. Bed someone's boyfriend? Bed a girl?
i love being called a slut while my guy is rubbing my pussy totally gets me off being called a dirty slut *SIGHHHH* i wish he'd do it more!!! grrr....
I think it should only be used in bed.. lol.. actually I could care less about the word.. it's just a word..
Rumors I've heard: -I've slept with over 30 different people -I fucked a goat -I had sex with a friend's boyfriend while they were dating (I've heard this one in relation to several different people) -I'm fucking my entire circle of friends, gender regardless (I love my friends, and some of them are very attractive, but no.) -I slept my way to the top of my social group -I'm fucking my way through a social group in another state ...those are the untrue ones. Funny, the one that everyone thought was a lie (OMG What if she's not straight???) faded into the background once I came out as bisexual. There's still debate on whether my choice of faith grants any extra SO-seduction powers. I swear I'm a harmless hippie bookworm.
This is OT for the thread's original purpose, but on topic for Rue Takedo's response. If the local rumor mill decides you're the current target, there's not a damned thing you can do about it. It's simply the phenomenon that goes along with people who are too bored with their own lives and need to make others seem "wrong" or "bad" or whatever to make themselves sound better by comparison. Here's what I mean... this is the series of rumors that went around about me when I moved to a smaller town: 1) He's married to the blonde. (Then people discovered she was my sister.) 2) He and his sister are having incest. (Then she started showing up with a boyfriend.) 3) He's involved in a incestuous menage-a-trois. (Then it became fairly obvious that I wasn't in the picture at all.) 4) He's obviously gay. (Then I started dating one of the well-known female bartenders in town, who had no problem sharing details about her hot sex life with her friends.) And when they couldn't come up with anything else interesting to say, they finally decided... 5) He was a former ballet dancer. (Say what? And finally they just lost interest because I was too boring to keep rumors going about.) This is all just to illustrate that it doesn't matter what the truth is... they will find something to say about you, even if they have to make up the most outrageous stuff in order to have something to say. Some folks just have a fear of being silent because they think they'll disappear.
My hubby and I, as a married couple in the "lifestyle", call each other slut all the time, and also have given this moniker to a few close friends. It's also a big turn-on for both of us, depending on the activity taking place and the situation. We freely admit that we're sluts, LOL, and we love it!
Yeah, it seems the word, regardless of the truth, will be bandied about. Fox is right, not much you can do. I've been called that numerous times, and by people I hardly knew. Seems to shut 'em down when I galdly admit to it. I started the thread to aee how others felt about it, and I got some good info. Seems that those of us that are sluts don't worry about it. Others see it as hurtful. As like everything else in life, its all in your perception.
agreed, if you don't have sex you are a stuck up bitch, and if you do, you're an easy slut. Thats why its best to keep your business to yourself. I understand the word slut to be hurtful, and I don't think I've used it to describe anyone.
That's a good philosophy, Fox. And Alana, maybe I'll just start admitting to it and see if it shuts anybody/everybody up.
