Sleeping With a Man Who Has A Girlfriend, Is It Wrong?

Good job, now don't give in!

 

Wrong? Yes

Im an opne-minded person, but this is deception and will cause PAIN. Not to mention the fact that it is unhealthy for you too (as someone else said, why be with a man who cant be faithful and treats you both like this?)

Sorry but its wrong to start with, but as soon as i read there was a 5 YEAR OLD CHILD involved i just thought "Jesus, what the hell is she doing?"

Its the way i see it

 

Just read your last reply...good job, youve done the right thing

 

Well Guys, today will make it ONE Week since I got rid of him. I havent called him, even though he has called me a couple of times wanting to know what in the hell is going on, and I just set him straight, what I said was " You are lying to her, and I honeslty dont know that I could every trust you, even if we did get together, so with that said, I dont need you anymore." Guys, thank you for supporting me in this thing.

 

Thanks for the update.
Good luck, keep on keepin' on.

 

he called again today. Only this time I didnt answer the phone. He left a message, he just said that he wanted to talk, about us. I havent called him back, and I dont think that I am going to . In the back of my mind, I really wonder am I doing the right thing. I know that I am, but something just doesnt feel right, ya know? Maybe it's just me.

 

Good for you

 

I called him back, and he did want to talk about us, but he says that him and her arent together anymore, and I did see her, and ask her, she said it was true that they werent together. Then I asked him if thier not being together was my fault, but his answer I think was a lie, cause he told me no, it wasnt my fault. I just dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

 

I doubt anyone's advice will change.

He's a liar and a cheater. He is not worth your time.

Unless, of course, you would like to be the next person he cheats on. Because he's not going to change. Period, dot, end of story.

If you get back together with him, you are telling him that being a liar and a cheater is ok, that failing to live up to his commitments is ok, that getting laid by someone new is more important in life than being a parent. You would basically be telling him that you would be happy to be treated as he treated his now-ex.

Your words are meaningless now -- it's only actions that count.

 

Do you really want help? Delete his number from your phone and don't pick up his calls or call him. He cheated on a SERIOUS gf that he has a child with. If he can do such a thing to important people in his life, he is certainly able to do it again to somebody that isn't so involved or important in his life, such as yourself. I've seen this situation play out more than once before, and the ending is always the same. Why don't you change it up a bit and stay away?

 

Give it a month, he will go back to her. Even if not, you still shouldn't do it.

 

Thank you guys. I really appriciate everything, and I did take the advice, and I deleated the numbers and blocked his calls. So now the only thing to do is stay at home for the rest of my life, cause I see him EVERY where I go, but never speak to him, cause he was always with her. Now I have a reason not to speak to him, cause I really dont want to be with him. Ohhhh, guys I kind of met this guy the other day, and I already konw what u are gonna ask. NO he is NOT in a relationship, and he does NOT have any kids. Again thank you for all the advice.

 

Now that's what I am talkin about! Scrrew that ass-hat anyway...you da woman!

 

I havent seen him in nearly a month, and I am glad of that, I have met someone new, he does have a child, and is recently divorced.... He is so freakin sweet..... the second time that I met him, he grabbed my face like he was gonna kiss me, and just told me that I was beautiful, which is a little hard for me to grasp, cause every realtionship that I have ever been in, had been either abusive, or just not like this, so this is a change for me.... I think that it will take a little getting used to, but I think that I can handle it, or at least I hope that I dont fuck it up!!! Thanks again for all the help, it was very appriciated...

 

According to osho you can hav sex with whoever you want unless the person whom you are having sex with and yourself have no objection.