I DO know this, and you're talking to me as if i'm stupid and I DON'T like it one bit. I know the difference between right and wrong, and I know that it's wrong to "lust" after younger girls, but the reason why I wrote this thread in the first place was because I worried about the feeling that I sometimes get when I see a girl in a short skirt, and if I actually get that feeling if it's a younger girl (even if I don't look). The feeling is just something that I have noticed quite a bit in the past 3 years or so since I was 15, but I CAN control my actions. Is this abnormal?
I don't believe what you describe is abnormal at all, Chris. The fact that you recognize your responsibility to control your actions shows that you are not a pedophile or abuser type. And, let's face it...you're really not that much older than the skirted girls you describe (5-6 years is not much). I think of it this way: yes, it would be a problem for you to date a girl that age right now, but, when you are say 27, you could actually meet the same girl, who would then be 21...and no one would give it a second thought if you dated each other. My advice to you dear...enjoy being 18. When a young girl in a skirt walks by, resist the temptation to look since it bothers you. You're fine sweetie, don't sweat it! Peace-Bella
Well 3 years ago when I got this feeling, I was worrying to death over whether or not I was a paedophile, and two years prior to that (5 years ago now) when waiting outside on the corridor for a morning lesson, a lad that was a year older than me asked me if I was a paedophile, and with me being only 13, I wasn't sure what he meant by it and felt rather worried. At the end of that day I asked my dad what it meant and he didn't seem too happy that I came out with that word, and explained to me what it meant and told him that a lad asked me that day. Well that is one way i've thought of it, and due to my current age, I just know full well that dating a girl 5-6 years younger than me isn't good because they're still young themselves and in school. I just wish that I was older to be honest, and in my 20s. I always resist the temptation to look because I don't want her to think i'm staring or other people to notice me looking/staring.
Man, I know you probably don't want to hear this, but I think you have an anxiety disorder. My best advise to you is to find a therapist to talk to. It'll probably be hard to talk to them at first given the nature of your fears but once you realize they're not gonna judge you it becomes much easier. Try it man, all it can do is help. And maybe, you'll figure out why your feeling so anxious.
Glancing at a kid in a skirt isnt a problem But ive the majority of other things ive read from chris would be a concern if i was him
The VaTech shooter was said to have a mild form of autism, to have been bullied in junior high and high school, and had a lot of repressed rage, and kept to himself a lot. He also stalked women, and was arrested for it and almost committed, but they let him go. And then he bought a gun...
I know you're fond of your comparison Cutted, but my comparison still stands and I think it fits better. :1eye: And we'll be those folks that the world goes 'How awful you all were towards him on that forum' and we can join the ranks of the SA Goons and #shroomry for being the internet folk that egged them on. le sigh...our destiny is bleak.
Body Electric - I don't know what comparison you are referring to. and i am trying to encourage Chris to keep talking to the person he is consulting. It will help him. He has a treatable problem.
Chris - if you are being looked at because you are acting weird, that's one thing. But if a girl is looking at you and thinking "that is a cute guy over there. Maybe if I smile at him he will notice me and come over and talk and we can get to know each other", that is another thing. Next time a girl looks at you, give her a big smile and a nod, as if to say,"I would like to get to know you." And as you walk out, or go up to get some more food, stop to talk with her. It is always that first step which is the hardest in meeting someone.
Oh by the way, dude who started this thread, you are very fucking normal. Look all you want and enjoy. Short skirts make the world go round. Someday you will find your very own woman who will wear a short skirt for you and then the real fun begins.
Oh by the way, dude who started this thread, you are very fucking normal. Look all you want and enjoy. Short skirts make the world go round. Someday you will find your very own woman who will wear a short skirt for you and then the real fun begins. ========================================================= <a href="http://www.drugtreatments.com/alaska"> Alaska Drug Treatment</a>
Oh by the way, dude who started this thread, you are very fucking normal. Look all you want and enjoy. Short skirts make the world go round. Someday you will find your very own woman who will wear a short skirt for you and then the real fun begins <a href="http://www.drugtreatments.com/alaska"> Alaska Drug Treatment</a>
