Size Does Matter

So after about 30 years of thinking I knew what good sex was, I met a surfer named Crow who spun my dials in a way I'd never
expected. He wasn't much to look at, but he had an uninhibited outlook, and kind of a "porno" attitude. But the thing that most
surprised me was that for the first time, I met a man whose cock was the perfect size for me. I didn't realize how much of a
difference that makes! I was filled nicely enough that I could feel his pulses and twinges...and the head completely worked my g-spot...
instead of being too long and skinny (which skips and misses it), or being too short (which can't get in far enough).

I went from being a gal who was satisfied with an average orgasm within a 20 minute sex session to going for HOURS with Crow.
Multiple vaginals, and sometimes more than one clitoral.
I had to keep water nearby to re-hydrate.

It was stellar.

I looked up the average cock size for white guys, when hard it is 5.6" long by 4.8" around.
Average...depends on the nationality. Asians are smaller than that on average. Men of African descent are bigger than that.
Crow was Caucasian and was a little larger, seen many white guys larger than the average. Some that I had to turn away.
(I think there are so many guys with little dicks, that it drives the white dude size average down).
So the quoted average of 4.8 circumference would be a flea bite...for me.

It's funny, all my life I've heard men say what they preferred; "leg" men, "ass" men, etc...and none of those body parts are crucial for fit.
I think my wanting a good dick fit is more valid than a guy focused on the size of a girl's tits.


I'd like to start a revolution of women wanting specs BEFORE going through the time and effort of getting to know a guy.
Avoid some awkward moment of truth that arrives after heavy petting, and in my case, I had a 6 foot tall Adonis unveil his proud 4 hard inches.
On another occasion, the 6 inch circumference, 9 inch long beauty that I encountered was terrible, that wasn't going to happen.
Nice to look at, but I had no use for it.

Of course, this info is best garnered through the safety and anonymity of internet dating. In person....I don't know.
A girl might be too vulnerable to a pissed-off guy. Over the phone? Sure. THAT might work.

So, I've started to ask guys their LENGTH and CIRCUMFERENCE on my dating site. Some just disappear, which I understand...it's a
new concept for the guys of western (uptight) civilization. But why on earth would I want to play some game where a guy can get me
in his grips on a date, poke me with a tiny dick, THEN run off while I got nothing out of the experience? Or leave me bleeding with a
huge one? I think I have a friggin right to know BEFORE you come at me with that thing you plan to get inside of me!!!!


Knowing what I personally like for a "good fit", and using a fabric measuring tape, I measured my best dildo. 5.5 inches
around and about 6.5 inches in length, more or less. Give or take one-half inch on either measurement.

(It's important to note that CIRCUMFERENCE is more accurate than
DIAMETER especially for the UNround penis shape. For those of
you who don't know the difference, "diameter" is like....across the
top of a coffee can, and "circumference" is taking the measuring
tape and going ALL the way around the can.
A perfectly round dildo can be 1.75 inches diameter, and that will
equal 5.49 inches circumference. But if the stem isn't perfectly
round (cocks are all different shapes) then simply going by
diameter means nothing.)

Here is how I mixed in the "question" in my personal ad. Trying to be fair, I gave up my dimensions first. (I'll show you mine if you show me yours)?;


If you blush easily at a bit of ribald humor, we wouldn't get along very well. I can behave and be a perfect and graceful lady in mixed

company, but behind closed doors, you and I need to be able to play like a couple of little kids. I'm libidinous, everything works - ub2.

I am 5ft 7, 140 lbs, (curvy but muscular), 38-30-35 and my ideal is 6.5 to 7.5 in length, 5.25 to 5.75 in circumference...no

more. I'm about average. I figure the "right guy" for me will see mentioning that as practical and bold....and hopefully fun!

I need someone who is open-minded, and has a generally positive attitude about himself, women, and life for a long-term relationship!


The results have been mixed; one guy told me I "had no right", some disappear (once they actually read the fine print), and a few
others applauded me for my openness. A smaller number than that actually had the goods, but didn't appeal to me in other respects.

But ONE guy that I'm about to talk to today is bright, warm, fun, and seems to fit the bill.


Wish me luck!

 

There is a physical component involved, most definetely! Size does matter but not the way guys think. Every woman's vagina is different, as most men can tell you, but that's where their brain stops. Women with shorter vaginal canals can handle smaller penises while a larger will cause them pain. On the other hand, a deeper vaginal canal means more creative positioning for depth or more mechanical assistance. A man can be great in bed but just not have the equipment most compatable to to physically.

 

it's funny how so many men want or think they have big cocks. and the ones who claim their penis is big, rave at their ability fulfill a multiple orgsmic fantasy of any woman. HA HA HA
Sex with my wife can be such a pain, literally. my penis is 8.5" long and 7" around.
typically when we fuck i lick her pussy and rub her g spot and open her up with my fingers till the point just before orgasm then ease my cock in slowly and thrust a few times until she holds tight on while cumming only then I can have sex as its literaly a wet puddle on the bed. she sometimes cums another once or twice.
but all that happens only when she is super horny or on drugs haha the rest of time like a quick fuck before sleep is like I am torturing her. and it''s must be a turn off. the fear of incoming pain.

so I decides to arrange a 3some with a guy he had a 5 or 6" cock and he was embarrassed a little by my size. but when i told him to fuck my wife it was so good to see her be fucked with ease.

 

seriously, why is every single internet penis 8.5 inches? are we really supposed to believe this is the one situation where there is no bell curve, but instead half the world has 5 to 6 inch dicks, nobody has a 6 to 8 incher, and every person who has internet access is exactly 8.5?

where does 8.5 come from? why can't insecure people make up a different number? why not 8 or 9?

 

haha well you are correct most of men have average size penises, because thats average. some have larger mine could be 8.37" or 8.49" infact when i measured it it was 22 cm or 220mm as I live in a metric country. which roughly equates to about 8.5". you seem to know your penis facts and must of searched lots to of acquired all your data. well I can put this to rest would you just like me to send a photo of my penis with a tape measure? or would that perpetuate your insecurities?

 

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no research, i've just been on hipforums for a long time and have read a lot of posts, all from people who either have average sized penises, occasionally small penises, and lots and lots of large penises, all of them suspiciously the same exact size. i really have no interest in seeing your dick; if you happen to have the one legitimate 8.5 inch penis on hipforums then i congratulate you.

i really don't even care if people (not necessarily you) lie about their penis size. i just can't figure out why every single one of them picks 8.5 inches as the size they want to claim.

 

well I can only assume they believe that's a desirable size? well I'd quite happily be average size.

 

8 is too small and 9 is too big. 8.5 inche is 'the' perfect length

 

Well, my 8.75 inch penis is..............PERFECT!

 

lol I love these topics. Yes only large men are worthwhile and rest of us are shit. I have an average sized dick and I'm perfectly happy with it. If that's not enough for you (by you I mean any girl) then that's YOUR problem, NOT a failing in any way on MY part. Maybe you need a dick that big because your vagina is just too big a hole. No we can't think of it that way can we? lol the hypocrisy is hilarious. But saying that makes me an asshole or sexist doesn't it? But perfectly fine to demean us "average" guys huh.

Yah there's such a thing as too small and physical things matter like if girl is really tall and guy is really short or some such physical thing. But seriously, if you can't be fine with a smaller cock then maybe you need to put the blame where it belongs. It's not always the guys fault you need a tree trunk inside you to get off.

say what you will about this post or me. My average sized dick is just fine and everything I said is true. Women need to stop placing all failings in the sexual area on men. can't orgasm? maybe look at yourself instead of blaming the guy sucking. Can't enjoy a smaller average sized dick? maybe you need to realize perhaps your vagina is just too damn wide.

lol *kisses

 

"Can't enjoy a smaller average sized dick? maybe you need to realize perhaps your vagina is just too damn wide."

...Wow, insecurities all over that terse response. Poor guy.

It's simply a matter of compatibility, there are tiny vaginas out there waiting for the smaller dudes.
There are larger capacity females that can handle the big guys.

And this all goes to my original point; that I am hoping in this "age of information" that men and women will get past the awkwardness and start communicating what their needs are - without the bitter tones.

 

"It's funny, all my life I've heard men say what they preferred; "leg" men, "ass" men, etc...and none of those body parts are crucial for fit.
I think my wanting a good dick fit is more valid than a guy focused on the size of a girl's tits."

I'm in complete agreement with what you are trying to do. However, I disagree with you being dismissive of what a guy finds physically attractive.

What you want is more valid to you, but speaking for myself, if the woman isn't physically attractive to me then that's just as incompatible. A girl with mosquito bite boobs or a saggy chest ain't gonna get my dick hard. Lumpy or bony ass, see above.

Again, you're well within your rights to seek exactly what you want. Doesn't make what others want invalid just because it offends you.

 

Average for who?

10 stone guy, what's his average?..
20 stone guy, what's his average?

But what if they are only 5ft? What if they are both 6ft?

What's average for me?...You guys, and ya average size!

I suggest you all measure up, and us ladies will tell you an average..

So that's, dick size, your height and your weight!!!

What!?????

 

haha

 

what a pointless discussion, men always concerned with the size of their penis.. personally I'm comfortable, but even so I aim to satisfy, and too be perfectly honest most of the pleasure I give to woman trancends penises, after all its just a piece of cylindrical flesh. if you have a small one buy a bigger sex toy if you have one too big buy a smaller toy. or just ask what the woman likes...

 

All bodies are different, all bodies are lovely and just right for someone and NZnudist for what it's worth I believe ya, why not right...I posted a nude that was up for a couple months and it's no secret my size and I wasnt hard, it was just present like my smile so that being said I think 8, 9 inch penises are probably more common then the general public thinks. Like I said all bodies are lovely and different...no body shaming here, only love

 

I was watching a show the other day about a guy with a small penis. Now it was pretty small, small enough that his stomach covered what he could see so he'd never really seen it.

So he goes and gets it moulded and the cast comes out and it was very small but he was proud of it he hung it up on the wall at his home.

 

A female friend is a medical professional in her early 50's.

Several years ago she performed a procedure on a (Caucasian, German) man she described as the most perfect male physique she had ever seen. He was also unusually handsome, with very attractive facial structure, blond hair and blue eyes.

And he had a very small penis. Not freakishly small, but bordering on it.
Like a little boy but with fully descended testicles.
Nature is weird, and often cruel.