Size affecting relationship?

i had a girlfriend that told me i was too small to get her off when we broke up she told me my lack of size played a role in her decision

 

she told me that too, said she liked to call you weenie boy

 

I do have a size issue with both my dick, my ass and a partner's dick.

As for my dick, even though I only bottom, I also always wonder if its small size (4,5 inches) might be a turn off for a partner. Not that I'll beat myself up if it is (if he doesn't like it, tough shit. )

My ass, on the other hand, is a BIG issue. It's a bubble butt but extremely tight so it's almost impossible for me to do anal without at least a bit of pain. And unlike some lucky people I'm by no means turned on by pain. I do have unbelievable orgasms when masturbating during penetration, though.

Currently I don't have a partner, but I don't like big dicks. I prefer them within the 5 inches range. The biggest I've had was 8 inches and that was too much! When it comes to dick size less is more! lol

 

size does not affect a relationship all that much. I know I prefer smaller tits and a great personality, than big tits and a dud in personality when it comes to a relationship. Being a guy I view sex as like a sport or practicing an instrument there are some that are naturally gifted but almost everyone has to work on it for improvement. I'm certainly no sex expert but Ive learned You have to listen to cues that your partner is giving you and then focus on those on subsequent sessions. Also foreplay for whatever reason seems more of an important part of a womans sexual experience than a mans (at least mine.) There is also oral for the woman, so all these are things one can work on if they aren't or don't feel adequately equipped.

To 420twentyfour7 I don't know if you were specifically addressing this issue but a man can be insecure with himself with things other related than his penis. I have this psycho/physical disorder that makes me very insecure and thus far hard to maintain relationships.

 

It can sometimes be an issue, it depends on the recipient (for want of a better word).

One partner would bleed regularly, yet anal with her was fine. Go figure.

Another bled the first 3-4 times.

And yet one girl regarded me (8-9 and really thick) as average. (I later found out her only other partner was hung like a rolling pin)

The last but one refused to do doggy, because she said it was too deep and hurt too much.

As in many things, it depends.

 

I've never dumped a guy for being too big, even if they've injured me, .... but I have dumped one for being too small.

Pity too, total hotty but with a boner as long as my pinky finger and as thick as my thumb, with PE on top of it. I tried, but it was just a non event.