Situation with a friend

Good luck convincing the chics on that one

 

Already have done, thanks. Not everyone thinks about their dick constantly. Some men have respect for women and take pride in their happiness. It's called being a gentleman instead of a fuckboi.

 

There's no way that amounts to "GET HELP." Here's an idea, why don't we all try helping each other? It shouldn't be that you go out to an individual who gets paid exorbitant sums to quote unquote, "help you." And all of the so-called mentally healthy people are just well adapted to everyone being dicks.

 

well there's no way this is OP's second account...

 

I disagree. My counsellor has been very helpful.

I do think it is possible for a counsellor/client relationship to be a bad fit, and it sounds like you've had a negative experience, though maybe I'm wrong.

I do think there are professional out there who enjoy being in a position of power and that is why they choose to work with people who are vulnerable.

To call us "fucking idiots".....the only thing I can think to say in respect to that, is: speak for yourself..

 

This is all besides the point. Getting up at 3 am and not sleeping on the weekends for a woman you've never met and who doesnt return your feelings isnt gentlemanly or fuckboi-ish, it's just obsessive.

And i'm not picking on the OP by pointing that out, hopefully he didnt come here to have people lie to him and tell him that sort of thing is healthy. He asked for advice for a reason

 

We can bring this back around. There is still time.

 

OUCH......



Cheers Glen.

 

I agree. It's not healthy behavior.

 

It isn't, but way to come to a conclusion love.

 

And its not like it's a personal attack on the OP to point that out. We've all done stupid things in the name of love or lust or a crush or whatever. It happens.

The important thing is to take a step back and realize it is unhealthy

 

Totally. I think he was on the right track by ending his friendship with her. He was starting to realize that the emotional despair he was feeling was indication of a toxic relationship.