Sister Aruna Ladva of Brahmakumaris on Conflict Resolution

Ajay0 · Aug 27, 2022

A free pdf book by Sister Aruna Ladva of the Brahmakumaris (Certified Negotiator in Conflict Resolution) on Conflict Resolution and its management.

https://arunaladvaitstime.files.wordpress.com/2014/05/aruna_conflictres_2014.pdf

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Some excerpts from the book....

Anger can be simply a pattern of behavior, in other words, a habit that we have created over time where we repeat the same reaction to a certain situation. Habits by definition are unconscious ... so to become conscious and aware of our reactions means that we can step in and use the power of choice. Through responding rather than reacting we can begin to change our destructive thought patterns.

When we are at the peak of our anger, we are at the trough of our ability to discern and to discriminate. In simple words, it makes us stupid! This explains why much of the crime in our society is done in the heat of the moment.

We choose whether to make conflict a contest; a game in which there are winners and losers. In fact it is a game – but one in which all can be winners.

Conflict is neither good nor bad – it just is. If we can create this neutral mindset and not fear, resist or have any arrogance around it, then we will defuse any beliefs or misconceptions about conflict and be in a better position to handle the conflict.

By focusing on interests rather than positions, it is easier to find mutually satisfying solutions to conflicts.

To respond thoughtfully and meaningfully to a situation rather than to simply react using habitual patterns of behavior, is the hallmark of one who has learned self mastery. ~ Sister Aruna Ladva
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