wow, I walked into that one.. you guys are funny, but seriously, not with my wife, with your own partners, is it common?
Yes, sorry couldn't resist that invite, ha ha. We occasionally do, and it's great when it happens. It's usually after a prolonged, hot session. It's not typical for us though, but that's just down to preferences. More often for us, we like to finish with me shooting over her, mouth, face or ass. We both love that too.
Sometimes but not very often. Its usually one of us that orgasms first but not both at once. Depends what she does to me while I'm stimulating her. Usually its me that stimulates her first, I have been the one who has always had to initiates sex as she is not interested in making the first move.
Of course it's happened. I find the simultaneous thing a bit disconcerting. I want to fully experience his/her orgasm just as I want him/her to share mine. Cumming together you miss half the fun.
In the 34 years that my wife and I have been married (and the two years of engagement before that), we've only climaxed together three of four times. She has a very difficult time achieving a vaginal orgasm, I usually pet her until she cums and then we fuck. (She likes to fuck, she just almost never cums as a result.) Even back when we were in a threesome with our friend Steve, I only recall her cumming ONCE while he was fucking her. (He was bound and determined to get her off, so that time was like summiting Mt. Everest for him!)
It doesn't always happen but when it does it's only because I get to excited when she starts coming I get to excited and quickly catch up
Almost every time. She usually has 2 orgasms while we are screwing, and then when her last one approaches I join her. But alas........we haven't had sex now in over a year. Oh for the good ole days......
The last guy I dated knew I liked it when we came at the same time so he would hold out until I got started before he would let it go. Really hot the first few times, but after a while it was like actually no, I'd like you to keep going and not stop and ruin my orgasm, kthx. It was really nice of him, though. Fucking insane the first time he did it. I didn't know what to do with myself. :dizzy2:
I came for the first time in 1959..alone...since then..lots of times NOT alone...but with a woman(ahahah) :bandana: having an orgasm at the same moment is a matter of control... i know how to do it...but sometimes I got to excited and either the woman came before...or I did... climaxing is building up a sexual tension in eachother..it's simply a great feeling... :bulb: oh..I still am a tiger sometimes(hihi)an old one maybe..but experienced... https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=HC7vwx2FtDw
I have to wonder if you hold it until she is ready to orgasm or not. If you dont and she just happens to cum when you do, you are either very lucky or, more likely she is faking it.
We used to simul-cum most of the time (post menopause she doesn't cum from intercourse) and I really miss it. It's not really holding back but her getting off would push me over the edge and at times vice versa.
I have never kept a count, but if I had to cum up with a number then I'd say probably every 4 or 5 times we orgasm together. Normally I orgasm first and then my husband. I do get mini-orgasms afterwards, but they are not like the big explosion of the first, so don't really count.
Most times for us , it is at the same time at least for the final one. She usually cums several times during.