Thats pretty much exactly what it is about.:cheers2: Also you could watch their body language, it can tell you alot about when their gonna cum and how long you have till you can cum together. I think it is also about wanting the other person you are with to enjoy themselves as much or even more then you. Paying attention to their needs and not just your own. Tiffany
It's only happened a few times.. Maybe 4 or 5.. An absolutely amazing thing to experience.. And it was with the same woman each time. We were just completely in tune with each other sexually.
Really depends on how you can control yourself. I can control it via mind and speed, but I need a signal when the girls climax is arriving. Some have strong signals, or tell you, some are zero. With a signal I prefer to have the girls climax start a bit earlier so I can climax at her peak, or a few seconds later. My GF is quite a fast climaxer (is that correct English?) and often we go simultaneous for her 2nd climax.