Sick To My Stomach...

So I just found out that my ex is wanted by the police...actual warrant and all; turns out he's been hiding a 15 year old away from her parents, and having sex with her, and he's 25. I feel awful. Not for him, mind you, but me. I feel like I'm attracted to sickos.

 

Just remember its not your fault.

*hugs*

 

thanks.

 

I would just make sure to stay away from him, I cant stand people like that. I hope they catch him for doing something like that.

 

If they don't, I will find him for the cops. To me, that's just plain sick.

 

I agree with you, I just dont understand how some people can do such things.

 

I feel for the 15 year old and her parents.

 

Me to olhippie, me to.

 

What a wack-job.

He'll get what's coming to him. I'm a strong believer in karma. You will get what you deserve from life...and he will get his...and I have a feeling they will be very different things

 

holy fuck
they'll get him, eventually
and the kid should be ok with sufficient therapy of one form or another


but... yeah, eep. Can you limit how much contact he has with your kiddo?

 

Now that he is a sex offender, I doubt he will be allowed unsupervised contact with your kid.

For the people who will freak out and start an age of consent debate....
I know a lot of 15 year olds look 20 these days, but that was a stupid and irresponsible thing for him to do....he knew he'd go to jail for it.

 

Well instead of looking at it as you were attracted to a sicko, try the fact that he thought you looked so young and attractive that he was attracted to you, and obviously he has the ability to attract others so through his looks and charm whatever it was you were lured and not the only one. Im not real great with words but I hope you get what I was trying to say. I reread this and I know what I was tryig to get out and it seems to fall short but I tried and really believe it was not your attraction to sickos as much as you are attractive yourself and fell prey to a sicko... that is a tad better but yeah still not there.


As for the whole 15 year old well if she is not mentally handicapped, and not deemed stupid by law I fell she knew better herself too. Still wrong, but some of that blame should rest upon her shoulders too, damn they would put her in adult court if she killed people becuase they figure you know right from wrong. She knew the law and the reasons for, his age I assume, but no matter what its a messed up deal all around.

 

egads. i can understand you feeling that way, i'm sure i would too, but it isn't your fault. and it's a good thing that he won't be able to have unsupervised visits with your kid anymore

 

It'll be great for your case keeping him away from your baby..... he is getting worse all the time, where will he end up?

 

Wow, that's just nuts! You're definitely better off without him, that's for sure.

{{{Hugs}}}

 

You are better off with a nutcase guy like me!
The worst thing I'll ever do to you is get drunk and take advantage of you.
Some guys are so evilly ambitious. Me, I'm much more simple.
Get me a beer and a sammich babe, then get here in bed!

 

Need me to find him? And did you want him back with two kneecaps or 14?

 

I got lucky as far as the kid goes...he doesn't acknowledge his son's existence. I also just recently had parental rights "legally" granted to me through the courts, bunch of legal bs I had to do in order to keep the guy away from my son...he'll have to have my permission in order to get a paternity suit to establish that the kid is his, (which I know it is, I was in a monogamous relationship), and I have the right to deny him the opportunity since his name isn't on the birth certificate.

 

Strange as it may sound, I still worry about him...for being so stupid.

 

hey...thanks for the hug.