You're definitely a shower. That is 6.5" soft. Very nice size to be presented with when you slip your boxers down. In my experience I'd expect you'd make 8" for sure and if it was me I would be looking forward to being very filled by you.
My actual rule of thumb, and I'm rarely wrong is this. When I see a guy with: Up to 3" soft, it doubles in size. 4" - 5" soft usually increases by 50% when hard 6"+ soft usually increases by 30% max. There have been two occasions where the guy who was 6"+ added more than 50% - they were BIG and definitely the exception. But hey, cock size just isn't the deal anyway. Yes, it feels nice being stretched and filled, but I have had some of the most amazing sex with guys who were 5".
A grower and not a shower Just know that my woman loves it and i am to old to give a shit , i just know it is big enough
Grower. Flaccid about 2.5-3”, erect 8” long, head can be 8” in diameter while shaft is about 6” diameter. Jump into cold water and I’ll have to dig it out lol
I go from 4" to 5.5. Neither a shower or grower I suppose? The worst is the thinness, that's what makes it look like a child's penis. Great when you have to go to a doctor.
I'm a grower, wish I was more of a shower. My cock is 6.5" when erect but has a tends to contract when not aroused. Some of the time it hangs nicely but mostly it shrinks. I've always envied the guys whose cocks dangle.