Shower or grower?

I was just wondering who is a shower and who is a grower. I am not huge just average I guess at 6 inches but when I am soft and it is cold out or I am nervous. Or even outdoors naked. I shrink up really small and it pulls back into the fore skin and hides and is only about 1 inch long, it is embarrassing sometimes. I was at nude resort and it was spring not hot out around 70 and I was shrunk up so small. I dont know if anyone really cared or not I guess it was mostly me. What do women think when they see that.

 

awe he's shy... kidding

I would imagine depending on your body as well as how cold or nervous you may be may cause it to shrink more or less. IDK I'm just guessing.

As a woman I don't expect (visually) my man to be walking around 24/7 with a hard 6" cock. That's just unrealistic.

 

I think it is beautifull just be proud of what you have. 6 inches penis has nothing to be ashamed off. In fact over sized penises can be useless in many cases. Usualy from what I have seen in movies and my self men with average penises has more intense orgasms, shoot further and make bigger cum loads. So be proud and enjoy.

 

Who the fuck gives a shit about a flaccid penis besides the man it grew on, honestly?

 

In my opinion, a shrunken penis is really ugly to look at. I enjoy looking at beautiful cocks and I'll do it whenever the opportunity presents itself, but only beautiful ones. The ugly ones, I just ignore.

I'm talking only about the looks in a situation where I don't know the guy and he's just eye candy... or not.

 

One of the really crazy things about porn is that they never show a flaccid penis. But I enjoy watching a woman make a little mushroom grow into a proud erection. Once, back at the dawn of porn, I saw a film where a woman used only a feather to make this happen, and this one grew to 10 inches. Very hot. I've never seen anything like that in the last 40 years.

On a personal note, I'm a grower. Go from about 1.5 inches (3.8 cm) to 6.0 (15.2 cm). So, even tho I feel good about the size of my penis for sex, I've always felt embarrassed to get naked in front of people, even my doctor. I wish I was a shower.

 

Agreed, just be happy with what you have in all states. Everybody knows the concept of shower/grower (right?) so keep that in mind that people, when they see you nude, probably know that. (and that might even pique their curiosity, who knows)

I do have a *minor* beef with above statement though. "average penises..more intense orgasms, bigger loads, etc" I think this is case of reverse prejudice of sorts. I used to date a really thin girl, and she'd get fired up when people try to justify being large by saying "oh well big girls have better sex" or are more creative or...whatever. It's like no...no...there's all variations on each end of the spectrum. Don't make judgements about any particular kind of person (penis, car, college, etc) , especially to compensate for what you perceive as your own idiosyncrasies, ja? .

 

You would think everyone would know the concept of grower/shower, but I still see plenty of evidence that women are judging men from the size of their soft penis. You especially see it on other sites that report on nude sightings of celebrities. Remember how Jude Law's penis was judged as tiny, even tho the photo I saw showed a perfectly normal flaccid penis? And there's been so much talk about how hung Michael Fassbender is, just based on the fact that he's a shower. I don't think he's ever shown his erection. Do you know there are sites that judge men's bulges? They think they know everything from that.

 

well i agree, actually this OP could have been written by me and it would have been 100% factual. but there was a member here who if memory serves went by the name dark sugar who was making comments about an Olympic diver and how small his bulge was. and even when i pointed out that it wasnt hard and she wouldnt know how big it was when it became useful. she still insisted that if it was that small soft no way it would be big enough for her when it got hard. its comments like that where guys get embarrassed about their size, even if it is from a small minority of ignorant women...

 

Those are the kinds of people who will also turn around and tell you some dude had a ten inch dick because they don't know visually the difference between seven and ten. You hav to tune out the static, and quit worrying about strangers. One life to live and all. Some woman on here claims she had sex with a man who had a 15" dick. I'd like her to know I have this bridge for sale at a steal in Brooklyn. You gotta take the internet with a sprinkle of salt.

 

If a guy told a woman how big his penis was, can you imagine her trying to figure out how long the size is he tells her ? How many woman get around with a tape measure in their hand bags anyway. Or do they have a reasonably good idea as to how long a 6 inches penis is without seeing it ?

 

Would you say that about a guy? That he needs to carry around a ruler to know how long things are? Your words sound sexist.

 

one time my mom was talking about a sandwich and she said she got a six inch sub and said she was still hungry then she said, you know 6 inches is really nothing. i had a frown face on the inside for a few different reasons.

 

yeah, temperature can affect things a lot

 

Six inches is the diameter of my smallest cake pan. Six inches is the height of a 4 oz bottle of extract. It is the distance from the floor to the top of my cat's hip when she is sitting. It is the diameter of the bottom, but not the top, of my dog's water dish. It is the diameter of the pan I use to melt butter. It is the length of the blade I use for sculpting cake and slicing sandwiches. It is the aproximate distance from the distal knuckle on my middle finger to the heel of my palm. The heel of my palm to the tip of my middle finger is just a skosh over seven and three-eighths inches. Wrist to elbow (if bent to about forty-five degrees) is ten inches. Distance from thumb to pinky (tip to tip with three other fingers bent) is roughly eight inches. I also keep a tape measure in my purse, AND enjoy using either that or my hands to measure erections. Maybe I wouldn't trust my estimations to use for building a bookcase, but I'd use them for aproximating my need for materials. So yes. I know what six inches is. Don't you?

On the other hand, my experience has been that most people can't estimate distances nor volumes very well. I've heard some doozies for estimates for penises and cumloads I was looking right at when he estimations were made. All I could do was smile and nod. But no, I wasn't deceived.

I agree. Though, I would say that about most people. People who don't regularly measure things for either occupation or avocation tend not to be good at visualizing sizes, in my experience.

 

I can measure distances between 600 and 20 meters quite well. But I couldn't tell you the difference between 5 or 6 inches. Fascinating, really.

" I've heard some doozies for estimates for penises and cumloads"

lol. How does one measure cumloads? milliliters? teaspoons? TABLESPOONS? (good lord lets hope not, or I'm in trouble).

Heh.

 

Quite a few dudes have told me anecdotes which ended with them splooging out a quarter of a cup. I find that a peculiar and unlikely quantity, since average is somewhere between one and three teasoons, which I then compare to shotglasses. It would take six teaspoons to fill one shot glass, and two shot glasses to make a quarter cup, two fluid ounces. Usually they take it back. Sometimes they honestly expect ke to believe them. Doozies.

 

I think I'm going to get a teaspoon and ask my girlfriend to cooperate and help scoop it off her stomach by the teaspoon to measure after i climax. kekekeke. stay tuned!

 

one. ok. :/