I did go out and buy a jelly. You were right, it IS a lot nicer than the plastic one. I'm really starting to look forward to it now, even though its huge in my eyes (and my ass). I thank you all for your advice!
I have a decent collection of toys and the jellies are my favorite. Someday soon I hope to bring my gf around to using them on me instead of just going solo.
the ass is one of our most ignored errogenous zones. my ex and i occasionally enjoyed some anal sex. the most excellent experience was when i made her orgasm by simply inserting myself in her ass. there were limits, like she found it uncomfortable if i went slow, and we could only do it in certain positions. insertion was always the problem. one thing ill never forget is actually feeling the tip of my manhood making contact with the back wall of her... back door. perfect fit. warm her up to it with a thorough rimjob, which is extremely fun for any adventurous guy. start at the back of her neck and work your way down. it is a rare pleasure. the rectum feels so spongy and soft. i'm envious of the dude who gets it weekly. peace all, enjoy the butt-sex
Okay that's me. Yes, I've had anal sex for 20+ years. Not huge amounts, but now and then. Both with males and females (straps) I have always found it enjoyable, otherwise I would not do it - and I have had no associated bowel problems at all. Tho I am aware that others can. My golden rule always is that if it's a sharp pain STOP! The filling/ache type pain associated with satisfactory anal penetration will always be there - its an enjoyable aspect as I find it creates endorphins, but anything that makes you go "ouch" suddenly ....... stop. And also, a rectum is not designed to be frantically humped - take everything nice and slow. 80% of the human population (guess!) can't be too wrong.
I love it, been doing it for years no medical issues, i'm still a tight ass. If by what some people say on here is true, we'd all have saggy leaky butt holes, especially after a rather large poo....lol
anal sex over the years definitely does not affect your ass. does not make things looser. does not make you leak. 15 years and counting for me, and my butt still looks and feels the same it did before.
Iv had anal with my guy and with toys, both feel pretty amazing IMO I love anal, we have anal more often than anything else, lots of lube and starting small and working up together is great and yea you can cum from anal alone, i do! x
Try it, just take it REALLY slow! It helps if you are starting out in the front door and lovin it! Gets you more relaxed, and into it
I apologise for posting as im a guy, but i have constructive advice. My wife and i have anal, and it does get easier. Very seldom she gets a bit sore but thats because at times i have given her poor butt a pounding. Also she sometimes put things in me (small strap on, small vibe, and finger) and i have found it becomes more of an erotic feeling than an uncomfortable one, and i look forward to it. No pain at all. My wife has orgasmed from anal sex without touching her vagina. Must be well lubed tho lol. Hope this helps.
Cool Hitman! My Mrs. cums hard too! Occasionally we do it w/o a toy, but she has to really be into it. Most of the time its better for her with Vag stimulation, or even penetration! She looks so hot double stuffed!!
Guys I love it when my Husband does the anal thing on me and I use a toy with Vibration and I love it when he just goes all in at once and that really turns me on and then it is smooth sailing from there......
My wife and I recently experimented with anal and I have to say I found it incredible and she doesn't want it any other way any more.
I'll fast forward that for you 5 years.... Five yrs ago I got my wife to try anal for the first time. At first it was sort of uncomfortable for her but she wanted it so she continued to try to enjoy it. It wasn't long afterwards that she began to REALLY like it and remarked more than once how she had been missing out on this all those years. Lately she has told me that she prefers anal to vaginal sex, which is fine by me! For some reason vaginal sex is not very comfortable for her and she has never had an unassisted vaginal orgasm unless a vibrator or heavy finger stimulation is involved. Even then the vaginal orgasm is so-so. (Maybe that's my fault). I don't think she has ever had an unassisted anal orgasm but it doesn't take much to get her there. I do think the potential is there for an anal orgasm so we will see as far as that goes. btw... first time poster here... great forums.
I just noticed that OP's name is an anagram of Anal, a? (don't judge me, I've been working 20 hour days.........)
Considering the OP hasn't been on since 2007 we are kind of giving advice to each other. Stay Brown, Rev J
I have a bit of a quandry....I have dabbled a bit with my fiance in anal sex and am interested in trying more but he has informed me he doen't care for it. I have been some what inhibited due to sexual trauma in my past and do my best to see that his needs are met but am not sure where to go from here.
