I met a girl online and i feel like she is the one. There is no one that i enjoy talking with lately. She makes me really excited after a very long time. I started to wake up happy in the mornings. I feel like i am talking with myself sometimes while talking with her. She was so interested in me in the beginning, 1-2 days. But she doesn’t text me anymore. I was waiting for her to make the next move but she looks like she is not going to do it. Why doesn’t she text me, what do you think? Should i text her?
She may just be on holiday or busy at work. I would suggest about a week after her last message before you text her again. It is even possible that for some reason she did not get your last message and is waiting for you to respond. If however her online persona was fake, at least you will know the truth. Sadly, a lot of people use the internet to pass a few house when they are bored and dig themselves into a hole that that they cannot get out of. For all you know, she could be out in the park with her husband and children.
"I met a girl online and I feel like she is the one." - Whoa there. Have you actually seen/met her? and how long has this relationship been? Sometimes the wants and the needs of emotions can overtake logical and realistic expectation. There is a difference between keen interest and stalking and that is time. No one wants to be pestered, nor do they like to be ignored. When you saying that you met 'online', I guess it depends on the site on which the interaction. If it was a 'dating' site, or if it was like this one, a social site? Be true to yourself and you will find the right attraction will follow
Stop pursuing her. Focus on your mission, goals and purpose in life. Let her reach out to you next. You hit the ball over the net Let her hit it back If she's still interested in you, she will reach out. (If you didnt blow it already) You pursuing her is only making you look needy with nothing else going on in your life. In days or weeks she might reach out. If not, she's no longer interested. Just walk away then. Women who are interested in you will reach out. Don't waste a minute of your time with women that have no interest in you.
Thanks for the advice. It is always a risk, but i take it. Because i really like the way she is thinking.
I will text her in the evening in case of she has lost my contact or missed my last message. I hope she texts back. If she doesn't text back or sounds like she is not attracted in me, i will move on. I am always ready for a funeral. Thank you all for your advices. Love you guys!
And talking about age, kids play these dangerous games online. She may even be 13 years old and was sitting with her friends during the first batch of texts. You just never know with the internet. I believe in the old saying, "if it's too good to be true, it's probably a lie"
Guys this is always a problem. Not just in online stuff. You can meet a girl who is 17 but looks like 25. In my situation. I am pretty sure this girl is not fake. I got her number. I know where she lives and more details about her. And i am attracted %100 percent mentally, not due to her physical apperance. And her mentality doesn't sound like someone teenager or fake.