Should I tell her or just let it happen?

I have been seeing this amazing girl for a couple of weeks. She is a perfect 10 and works as a fitness trainer. She has a great personality and the last couple of weeks has just been so amazing.

My problem is that we haven't slept together yet or haven't really explored each other's bodies, this is my fault completely because I always avoid being in a situation where it was going to lead to more than kissing and cuddling. I am insecure about the size of my package, it has caused problems in previous relationships, with some of my past partners commenting on it so I know it is an issue and am afraid it could complicate things.

Should I come clean about it to my GF before sleeping with her or should I just go with the flow and risk disappointing her?

If anyone has been through this or has any advise on how to approach this please let me know.

Thanks

 

I don't really see what good it would do for you to tell her. It's not like you're harboring a bad secret or anything. I doubt that any good would come of you telling her. On the one hand she could be really tight or sensitive in which case maybe it would work out. good luck

 

if she's going to be disappointed by your size, she will be disappointed whether you tell her or show her. might as well stick it in her before she dumps you from the disappointment.

 

I say get a penis pump, you can make it a hole Five sizes bigger but then you have to hurry to get it in her because that's only good for about 15 minutes. If she notices it getting smaller tell her she is imagining things, or better yet tell her she got bigger. Is she blonde? That's even better if so.

 

I just thought that I wanted to be absolutely up front and honest about everything. We have been very open so far.

If you think about it a different way, if a person was dealing with severe depression should they tell their new partner? It is only a matter of time before they are going to find out anyway. Is it better they knew sooner rather than having dedicated so much time to the relationship and falling for that person?

 

I think you should just fuck anybody.

And tell everybody.

Now.

 

I have never really been one of two guys who goes looking to get his rocks off, I'm more of a relationship guy. I'm quiet shy and wouldn't know what to say to girl on a night out. But I have gone through a few jobs over the last few years and have met girls through work.

 

please her before you even take your pants off....it all starts out of the bedroom and when you finally get in there make sure she is happy before you even start worrying about yourself.

Over the years I have found that it's a lot more fun if she cums first and then once she is going off like crazy you can get on and add to it.

 

Thanks for the advice guys.

I was out last night with her, it was one of her friend's bday's, I ended up staying over in hers and couldn't dodge it anymore. With the help of drink I just came clean and told her, but said that I would do anything to please and satisfy her.

 

what did she say?

 

dick anxiety seems to be epidemic these days.

most of the nerve endings in a vagina are within the first two inches, so if your dick is long enough to go that far, there's not much difference in size on a physical level.

Psychologically, women might like a big dick as a dominance symbol. A big dick might be more likely to jostle the cervix, which women might like, though deep positions like forchette (face down doggie-style) allow most dicks to penetrate that far.

The penis is a pretty standard piece of equipment, with most being in the 5 to 5.5 inches range. Monster size dicks are either rare, the products of surgery, or imaginary macho bullshit.

Don't worry that some dumb girl didn't like your dick size. If this girl really has a great personality and is not an idiot, she's probably not going to care too much about it. Good luck!

 

I hope she was cool about the whole thing. And if not, really, who needs her? In that case, it just means she wasn't a perfect 10 like you thought she was. But if she was a perfect 10, then I doubt she'd be negative about it in the first place.

I'm always honest about my size, although, I'm within the "average" size range since "average" is anywhere between 4.8 inches to 6.5 inches(which more or less echos what e7m8 has said). Anyone who has a problem with my 5-incher can just go fuck themselves. Like, that's their problem, not mine. Oddly enough, however, I've never met a girl who had an issue about my size..... But then considering their personalities, I guess it isn't all that strange after all, lol.

One thing I've learned over the years is that sense of humour is a very good thing. Being what I am, plus my overall physique(I'm barely 5'7), it's kind of a given that my package would not be of a monstrous size to begin with. So I embrace that and even joke about it. In fact, I would probably look somewhat disproportional had my penis be super huge, anyway.

All the best!
::The AT::

 

I would be really uncomfortable if someone brought that up to me in conversation. The conversation would turn me off a lot more than the size.

 

I couldn't agree more

 

Just go for it, a lot of women don't care all that much about size.

 

She took it very well, she kind of laughed and said she knew something was up, that most guys she went out with before would try and get her into bed whereas I tried to avoid it. We talked about our previous relationships and what it was that we liked about each other. She said that she normally went for bigger, sporty jock type guys (I'm 5'8" and a bit chubby) who were cocky and overly confident, and who ended up being either too much work or too egotistical.

She admitted that when it comes to sex she likes the full deeper penetration but that she would take a loving relationship over a purely good sexual one. She said she was looking forward to trying different positions and toys with me, and that I will be able to compensate.

She told me not to apologise for it and most importantly not to be insecure about it and not to let it get in the way of my confidence, that there is no bigger turnoff to a girl than an insecure guy lacking confidence or an overly confident cocky guy.

I'm just so happy this is all out of the way, she spent last night over in mine and I'm picking her up after work this evening again and she's staying over so everything is going great.

Thanks for all the advise.

 

Unless her stuffs junk size ain't gonna matter