SHould i quit school for love?

Hi , i got a problem

My bf went to California and he asked me to come there living with him
Should i leave school for this love?

Thanks for advise me

 

yes. if you can't explain yourself any better than this, then your only real option in life is to cling onto some guy that can.

 

No

 

Do both? I'm sure schools exist in California.

 

Hell no. There will be plenty of time for him when you have gotten school out of the way and can support yourself. You follow him and hope for the best and it doesn't work out then you will be worse off then being back at square one. You will be older and have to instantly support yourself and just in a situation you don't have to manifest. Be mature and tell this dude you gotta finish school. He's already being immature and selfish to ask this of you. It's not good.

 

If you would love to quit school.

 

Scan the threads a bit before asking...you tro....noobs come in ask the same basic question then poof gone like keyser soze

 

Maybe just study there instead... if you like him enough

 

He asked you to come to live with him.

Does he have a job that will support the two of you for three months or will you have to find a job immediately in order to pay the rent?

Chances are that he is not the one. He might be, but odds are against it. With that in mind, might it be wiser for you to wait for the end of the semester before leaving your current school. Heck, you could even apply and be accepted to a CA school before you pack your bags. That might mean waiting until the end of the school year, rather than the end of the semester.

If he is going to be a long term relationship, then you have plenty of time to move gracefully. If you have to drop everything and move right now, that's a sign that the relationship is pretty fragile.

 

...some new breed of ...passive...nonaggresive...troll...

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haha yeah bit weird

 

I will give benefit of the doubt that the OP isn't a troll.

Before deciding, do some 'homework'

1. Check the cost of out of state tuition if you plan on continuing you education. Some schools require that you live in state (often a year) before qualifying for in-state tuition. Out of state tuition does NOT switch to in state after you live there for a year. If you start out paying out of state, you will continue paying those rates throughout college (with very few exceptions). Out of state tuition costs are often double, unless you live in a state that offers reciprocity with California. All of this information can be found on the college website.

2. Check out the job and housing market. Most schools do not provide housing for non-married couples, and even those that do have a long waiting list. If the chances of finding a job that will pay for your living expenses are slim, you may want to seriously consider other options.

3. Do you plan on a future with the boyfriend? Getting married, having a family, have the same basic life plans, etc? Why are you the one quitting/changing school to be with him?

Instead of just asking "should I move for love" try asking yourself if it is a feasible option first. Then, if it is something that could work out, ask yourself if the relationship you have with him is worth uprooting your current life to maintain.

 

Thanks for your all answers

 

can you continue school in california? Start a business, or somehow persue your life dreams (other than boning and romanticizing)

what part? Inland pretty much blows for the most part

 

Absolutely not education is important even though I hate to admit it you can fall in love with a thousand flames, But most burn out . What will you do if that happens especially if you have kids you just wont be able to drop every thing for school. You'll have to work a labor filled 9 to 5. Your kids wont take education as seriously. Live for yourself now chika find love later.

 

why'd he leave?