should i play dumb

Fuckin' barely. And it wasn't because he was helping.

I don't care what you say, we are not wrong to expect a minimum quality level in someone's writing. Even the guy who said he's DUTCH wrote better English, and even when he thought he might've spelled "dyslexic" wrong he still had it right. Proves to me, and should to you, that it's not so fuckin' hard to spell like a literate adult.

What's the hardship? Slow the fuck down and just READ what you've written! It's a BASIC SKILL.

-Jeffrey

 

Excellent post: valid points, all.

Thank you.

-Jeffrey

 

Back to the original poster, it doesn't sound like you would need to try very hard to play dumb.

Come out and ask her what's she's done before. If you're going to have this chick down your pants, at least get some honesty from her. How do you know she's going to want to stay friends with benefits if she can't even tell you the truth about her past sex life?

Don't play stupid games. Tell her the truth and tell her you expect the same. In any kind of relationship, honesty is the best policy whether it be your friend, your family or spouse.

 

jeffrey- shut the fuck up. Its getting old

 

Dumb: lacking the power of speech, mute, silent.
I assume you mean ignorant. I could not care less how well someone spells, since there are many reasons for it, such as English being a second language, or poor education, etc. I don't find it offensive, or any indication of level of intelligence, all I care about is this: Did it make sense? If I understand the point clearly, nuff sed.
If they make the point very succinctly, without any extraneous verbage, even better.
If the question is one that I feel could not have been answered by the person asking, better still.
This question has zero merit.
No need to play dumb, as pointed out by others, just suggest it next time you are in bed.
Do not assume she has unless you saw it with your own eyes. people lie.
I liked the reply that suggested you go first, then see if she does. Why didn't you try that?
Like my old boss said once, "Don't come to me with a problem, come with a solution."

 

says the cocaine guy!!!!

 

Yeah, I love that too. I also love how guys just expect a girl to go down on them when they don't go down on her.

 

Forget whether or not she's done it before; that's none of your business. I don't know why you would think it is. If you want a BJ, ask her nicely, but with a little confidence. Don't get upset if she says no, and return the favor if she says yes.