Should I Lose My Virginity To A 49 Year Old?

Alright so I am a 19 year old college student and recently started using the tinder app. I never really been in a serious relationship before and never had sex let alone kiss a girl. However, the first day I started using tinder, I met a 49 year old mom who has 4 kids and is supposedly divorced. She is pretty attractive for her age so naturally I ended up asking for nude pictures. Instead of nude pictures she offered to have sex with me lol. As excited as I am, I am not sure if I should go through with this for a few reasons. The first reason is that I am still a virgin. She knows that I am but I am still afraid of embarrassing myself since I have no clue what I am doing (few tips would be helpful). The second reason is that I am afraid of interfering with her family. She said she is divorced but I have no way of knowing if she is lying. She also has 4 kids that may be the same age as me which also bothers me a little bit. The third reasons is that she is 30 years older than me. Shouldn't I lose my virginity to a girl that is of my age?

Should I go through with this?

Any suggestions or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,

firsttime@8

 

Do it, give her the classic double pump dump. Then maybe she will stop chasing teenagers.

 

drumminmama,

I thought it was a fake profile too but then she started getting pretty specific about where she went to school and the work she does. I then tried to find her on facebook and the only thing she didn't tell me is that she has 4 kids. Her tinder profile shows just one of her kids. Idk, I am pretty convinced it is a real person. However there is no real way of knowing without actually meeting her. It could just be a very elaborate plan to get my private informations. But I really don't think that is the case.

 

hopefully she isn't carrying hep c around with her

 

yeah i say go for the 49 year old



...and leave the 19 year old ladies for us middle aged guys :beatnik:

 

Are you saying that there might be some random person who is just copying a random person on facebook? possibly.

But most people use facebook to sign up with tinder. and even if she signed up without using facebook, the photos she has on tinder are different than the ones she has on facebook. So how could the this person copy another person on facebook and have different photos of that person. You know what I mean? Also why would that person say they had one kid instead of 4? It could be a fake but I feel like it is just too elaborate.

 

You are a 19 year old boy who will fuck a 49 year old woman?

 

seems like he's thinking about it.

what about you atsizat, would you fuck a hot MILF?

 

Of course I would but why would a 49 year old woman have sex with a 19 year old boy? this is what suprises me. He is damn lucky if he found a woman like that

 

That episode of 30 Rock where Lemon dates a guy in her office barely out of his teens, he finally brings her home to meet his mom, the mom looks exactly like her

That was a funny episode "ok, shut it down"

 

To use the words of the immortal Elmer Fudd: "Be verwe, verwe careful." It's a real temptation to fall for people online.
It pays to be choosy about your first time and who you want that to be with.

 

Go for it. She will rock your world.

 

When you get older than about 30 or 35, the things you hear most often about losing one's virginity are:

1. I wish it had been with someone I was in love with;
2. I'm glad it was with someone I was in love with.

Personally, I'm glad I was middle aged myself before crawling into bed with a middle aged woman. Some stuff ya just gotta work up to slowly.

 

your name was a little confusing... i saw the thread title and the OP's username and assumed you were talking about a pretty extreme pedophile.

so you're never going to have sex with anyone? you really never know if anyone is being completely honest with you before banging. even if you're dating for years, people still have secret double lives and stuff.

 

its not the worst way to lose your virginity

 

49-29-19-39-hell-79, if she's willing. Some say guns are equalizers--I say light switches are the best ones.

 

First of all, you should never trust anyone off an online app because you never know who they truly are. With this being an older woman and her not willing to send you any pictures, it could very well be a lie and lead to greater problems down the road other than losing your virginity to her.
I think that your virginity is sacred and important and should be kept for someone with meaning and importance to you. Meeting someone off of an online app that you may have been talking to online for just a short while, does not sound like someone you should be willing to give your virginity to. Also, because she is older, it does not sound like a safe relationship to get into whether that be a real relationship or just a sexual relationship just because you guys are physically attracted to one another.
If you do choose to go through with this, I will advise you to be safe. Engaging in safe sex at your age is so important-being equipped with birth control and knowing if the female is on the pill for extra protection against pregnancy. So many young people do not even know about sex completely before they engage in their first sexual encounter. Learning about safe sex is so important for many aspects, but especially for young people who are mostly unaware. Also, since it sounds like you are unsure if she is actually divorced or not, be careful of coming between her relationship. Although she may be asking to have sex with you when she is still in a relationship, does not mean that she will not turn it against you later. Make sure that everything is clear before you may proceed with this if you choose to do so. Be careful!

 

If she turns you on then have sex with her. With the expierence she has you will have a really good first time. Do not forget that one day your going to also be 49. You want society programmed to have sex with the older people so you can still get pussy when you turn 49.