Should I get a hooker?

Im also a fan of dipping KFC chips in the KFC coleslaw too.

 

WOW......Did They Move "Upmarket" Or What..??....Amazing........In Striking Contrast To When I Was Last There.....

Really Pleased That Me Being A Regular Customer Didn't Totally Ruin Their Reputation....



Cheers Glen.

 

Some reading material

Start here: Evolution has not prepared your brain for today's porn

 

This is "reading"?

Is this "science"?

The answer to both is no. There is no logical reason for the urge to mate to stop. This whole movement looses credibility since it's overrun with guys like you and the religious. Either way it's not objective.

 

The time lapse between your post and mine is 2 minutes. There's no way you could've skimmed through that article or watched a 16 min video in that amount of time. Takes real talent to see how quick you can make these conclusions.

 

I've seen what you posted before. This whole topic has interested me for a long time for reasons of mediation and enlightenment. Like what is sex? Does it hurt me if I do it alone? I mean I did that when I was 12 and had no women I was curious.

 

Dopamine is a hell of a drug

 

It is.... it's why many drugs release it. As I said though you don't have the science. You have the opinion that you are the man you want to be when not doing this. A real men gets women and does not need to do that kind of thinking.

Incels tend to focus a lot on this topic due to frustrations in dating. I guess I follow your rules though since I do have sex several times a week with another human.

What you are talking about is more of a social issue. Like if I can cum why deal with other people? That is a thing but it's not what you claim.

 

Frank Zappa, Joe's Garage, Catholic Girls! A classic (snif)

 

My link had scientific studies by real psychologists. You can keep screaming that it's fake again and again, but you've provided nothing but an unsubstantiated opinion. Glad you have a decent sex and love life. Not everyone does, and some need help. Their mental addictions to porn and their dopamine usage can be a detriment to improving their love lives. Porn isn't evil, but it can can be an easy outlet for someone to habitually get a quick fix, rather than going out in public and finding real sexual partners. Most incels seem to have an addiction to porn and video games because that's how they get their regular dopamine fixes..

 

If you only want sex, I think a rental is a good plan. But don't be stupid about it. Don't go cruising some boulevard/truck stop scoping for street hookers (aka Lot Lizards). Also, don't be in a hurry, it's when mistakes are made. Mistakes that can have legal consequences.

I suggest you read up on the kinds of forums that specifically cater to escorts. Then you have to decide if you want one from a service, or an independent. The plus with a service is that if the one you really prefer is out with dengue, they'll suggest a replacement (or two). Independents will rarely do this unless they have a partner. Instead the independent will do their best to keep you on the hook "tell you what, go take a cold shower, then get a dozen oysters at Hooters, I'll see you in 2 and a half hours". Or they'll play the guilt card in one of many incarnations, to buy time.

However, escort agencies are not charities. They add to the cost and they vet you in more ways than an independent will. Some of the online escort sites (I won't quote names, but a search for "large canine" might get you close) have forums and chat rooms so you can at least try to connect with someone you can tolerate. And that's important because ultimately you'll get a better deal if you find a regular. A term that's common in the US is GFE (Girl Friend Experience) which is the sort of escort who will go to a company party with you and end the night between the sheets, at her place.

If you hope to find a relationship anytime soon, don't do any of this. If there's a collision (real girlfriend discovers your secret), it will not likely end well. So put the hookers aside when you get serious about the future. And get an HIV test, to be as sure as you can.

Unless you're a chiseled Adonis, I would not suggest swinging as a single man. Swinger's generally treat single guys like asphalt. Unless you thrive on rejection, avoid swingers.

 

TED talks are never science

 

For some reason, if a willing man wants to stick an appendage of his body into an orifice on a willing females body and he gifts her with some green pieces of paper for doing so--the state figures that it needs to get involved and punish said humans for this most normal of acts. I don't get it---how does that affect anyone but the participants?

 

Tax evasion

 

He easily could have bought himself some Poontang by now.

 

So you're saying there's no consequences to seeking out new kinky porn in order to get off. Are you saying every word of the video is bullshit?

 

You didn't watch it so? What are your views on porn?

 

Sometimes the state argue that some of those people are being trafficked.

 

If it was as simple as dopamine every one that ate a hamburger would get addicted to McDonalds, everyone that played a video game would be dying after 3 non stops days of playing Call of Duty

Dopamine is a precursor for noradrenaline which amongst other things increases arousal and blood pressure, and ironically is used sometimes as a treatment for addiction.

That is, one of the neurotransmitters dopamine triggers has the reverse effect.

There are over 100 different neurotransmitters in your brain. Single variable brain studies are useless, and as that TED guy himself stated, there is no control group.

Self reporting from guys on the internet claiming to have given up porn is NOT a control group

You watch a video like that and you will believe it because you want it to be true, even though you have no idea of this guys background, whether he himself has done any brain studies, no idea whether any brain studies he has done or any he listed are worth the toilet paper they are written on.

You will also believe it because its simplified.
Which ironically is part of the point he is making. Much like staying home and jerking off to porn is easier and quicker than going out trying to get women to come back to your bedroom. Watching a 15 minute dumbed down youtube video is a lot less work than pouring through 100s of research papers to work out how useless that research actually is

 

^ we got one those. 24/7 its gay but not anymore. Id say more male gay during the day, after 6pm its all classes of people into sex. weekends its crazy. BYOB .