Should I get a hooker?

You can stop the rehearsed gimmicks by just picking your own role playing experience. But you gotta find a girl who's into role playing.

There seems to be a massive difference in what men expect and use the services for over woman, or maybe just me haha.

Men seem to go in with a pre meditated approach of, I'm having sex, wheras I go in with an open mind to have fun. In both cases, I don't think it should matter what "she" thinks of us, although it helps build confidence if you're anxious I suppose. It's always better being sexual with someone who's attracted to you too.
But men seem to have zero formality other than choosing a girl and having sex with her which pretty much reads like, you limit yourself to the fun possibilities because your initial reaction was to just have sex. No role play, no fantasies, no intimacy. And you all seem to know it's not going to be rather enjoyable too, because that's what you are limiting yourself to.

You guys really need to do some research beforehand or ask the questions to your girls because I feel like, you're missing out on so much more that can be offered.

 

If the process/action is not sincere (but only a means to get what you want) and you state 'But the fact that I'd even care what she'd think said a lot', that brings forth the question; should or shouldn't you. I obviously think it makes sense you would care. You?

We were talking about applying PUA tricks at this point. Not visiting prostitutes

I think with high class escorts the difference between what men and women expect and use the services for are a lot smaller.
The majority of male prostitute visitors go for cheap prostitutes though. And yes, mainly in order to get sex. They often don't care about the woman providing the service AT ALL.

 

I still don't know what PUA is.

 

Pick up artist. A guy who teaches other guys tricks how to get in touch with women in public, primarily in order to bed them.

 

oh pfff LOL i've never heard so much rubbish in my life.

 

Some of what they say makes sense, but its all still kind of hopeless if a guy wants to get laid through a one night stand but lacks confidence, looks and/or charisma and then decides to apply some tricks

 

get a hooker .just were a rubber..Or buy a sex doll ...having sex with hooker an t much diff cept can be dangerious

 

The idea that there's dudes out there with a bag of imaginary tricks they can teach others just makes me laugh. Like I know it's true, I dunno. Just seems like wank lol.

 

What I would really like to do, is to lick a hooker's ass hole. It would be safe. You can't actually get STIs that way. The worst that would happen is that I'd get an upset stomach. But if it was clean I would go for it. I could even put a condom on my tongue and tongue fuck her ass for a bit.

 

This is one of the few threads where the tangent convo has been productive.

It's good to see that some have been inspired by the topic to potentially start new businesses and career paths.

 

My specialty would be fulfilling female threesome fantasies
Not sure I'd move to SC for it though (Mel might prefer a complete stranger too ), and not that interested in trying this line of work out here

 

unless she got fucked in ass by someone w aids....some nasty looking drugged out hookers round my city I wouldn t fuck them with your dick

 

i think it's supposed to be an alternative to having a wank.

 

I'm secretly waiting for her to pull the trigger too and possibly ask me.

 

I doubt it at this point. The travel costs would be too high

 

You guys are making me lol this morning

I'll take a European tour one day

 

Cool, I have some practice time then: I will be oiled up like a turkish wrestler!

 

Hookers are generally cleaner than girls you pick up at bars because the bar girls let guys hit it raw 9 times out of 10.

And porn absolutely has a negative effect on motivation to getting laid. I just did that tonight. Was talking to my fuck buddy about having her over, jerked off to some porn then told her I was going to bed instead. Anyone who thinks porn doesn’t hurt your drive to get laid must not be able to get laid at all, because it’s actively deprived me of pussy plenty of times. Once you cum it’s just not worth the energy or effort lol. My mind goes right to something else.